"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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plate-zoning an ex

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how do you guys feel about this? is it highly un-DJ of me? the idea behind this is essentially utilizing the sex with her to benefit me in my life, keep me calmer, more level headed, etc, but also as a wing-girl, as a sort of sexual-capital object, to make other girls jealous and and increase my status among the people that know me. which is highly useful i will add. when people think youre attractive and they know youre ****ing someone that is super sexy and youre stable enough to .....not be desperate? that other women take notice and want to cut themselves a little slice. they have to be aware that you're snack, though. its possible to know yourself very well but people will still project their own insecurities, and so until they actually know you they can't properly respect you which in turn means they can't find you attractive in any sense. i truly don't think anyone is perfect.

is this wrong, am i stupid? what is the issue with this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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