"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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EverSure75

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Hey gentlemen.
One of my plates has been hinting that she wants to have more than sex when we meet up. She "feels better when there's conversation and intimacy".
Personally I'm not interested in anything but sex with her. If she had more attractive qualities I probably wouldn't mind chilling with her and talking. She doesn't however.

How should I handle texts like. "I like you for more than sex" and " I've tried the sex only thing before and I'm more comfortable when there's more". Or " I don't want to make you feel cheap by just wanting you for sex". I did reply to the latter saying that being wanted just for sex doesn't make one cheap in my books.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alvafe

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then you walk away, she will try to withdraw and make you pursue her, she can even after sometime try to call you for something and sex again, but since you are not willing to comit to her then you walk.

or if you are that willing to string her along for more you cal always pull, I don't know i'm not sure yet, or ask about something she does you really don't like and she is more likely not stop doing, ask ehr if she still do it(like talk witha ex or any guy), if she confirm then you say let's keep things like this for some more time.
 
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