"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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EverSure75

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Hey gentlemen.
One of my plates has been hinting that she wants to have more than sex when we meet up. She "feels better when there's conversation and intimacy".
Personally I'm not interested in anything but sex with her. If she had more attractive qualities I probably wouldn't mind chilling with her and talking. She doesn't however.

How should I handle texts like. "I like you for more than sex" and " I've tried the sex only thing before and I'm more comfortable when there's more". Or " I don't want to make you feel cheap by just wanting you for sex". I did reply to the latter saying that being wanted just for sex doesn't make one cheap in my books.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alvafe

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then you walk away, she will try to withdraw and make you pursue her, she can even after sometime try to call you for something and sex again, but since you are not willing to comit to her then you walk.

or if you are that willing to string her along for more you cal always pull, I don't know i'm not sure yet, or ask about something she does you really don't like and she is more likely not stop doing, ask ehr if she still do it(like talk witha ex or any guy), if she confirm then you say let's keep things like this for some more time.
 
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