"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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EverSure75

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Hey gentlemen.
One of my plates has been hinting that she wants to have more than sex when we meet up. She "feels better when there's conversation and intimacy".
Personally I'm not interested in anything but sex with her. If she had more attractive qualities I probably wouldn't mind chilling with her and talking. She doesn't however.

How should I handle texts like. "I like you for more than sex" and " I've tried the sex only thing before and I'm more comfortable when there's more". Or " I don't want to make you feel cheap by just wanting you for sex". I did reply to the latter saying that being wanted just for sex doesn't make one cheap in my books.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alvafe

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then you walk away, she will try to withdraw and make you pursue her, she can even after sometime try to call you for something and sex again, but since you are not willing to comit to her then you walk.

or if you are that willing to string her along for more you cal always pull, I don't know i'm not sure yet, or ask about something she does you really don't like and she is more likely not stop doing, ask ehr if she still do it(like talk witha ex or any guy), if she confirm then you say let's keep things like this for some more time.
 
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