"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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plate wanting to be exclusive

K_architect

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Hey guys, Question i am currently dating about 3 different girls at various distances from my place. One of them who lives close is pretty decent **** material but definitely not LTR worthy.

The other 2 are also pretty cute but it involves about an hour of traveling. however they are alot better in terms of LTR potential, but the distance is slowing the progression on that front.

However the problem is that one who lives close wants to start doing boyfriend girlfriend stuff. What would be the best way of keeping her as a plate or turning her into an FB while still seeing other women? She hasnt asked for exclusivity yet but it will probably start to become an issue soon.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Greasy Pig

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1. Cut her back to once a week.
2. No sleepovers.
3. No communicating unless it's to organise hooking up to fvck.
4. No romantic gestures, long deep conversations or public displays of affection.
5. Act like Mr Rent-a-c0ck who is only available for sex.

She'll either fall into line, dump your arse or directly and actively push for exclusivity, at which point you can either try to delay it again or bail.
 

mikey2012

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exclusive? once you do ...she will dump you...resist this.
 
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