Plate scared of my Baby's Momma (ex)

[PoZest]

I've just recently left a LTR with a crazy girl I had a baby with, and three weeks later on, theres this girl I've been talking to a lot, and she told me she likes and wants me etc. She's sent me pictures and seems up for it. But she works with me and my daughters Mother and she is scared of what she will think/do, because she is still trying to get back with me.
And we have never managed to meet up outside of work.
I don't know what to say to convince her that it will be ok.
Do I say we can keep it a secret? Tell her she shouldn't care what ex thinks?
She seems to make excuses every time I say to meet. Well 3 times I've asked and she was working one time, and at college the other. But she hasn't really made an effort herself to meet up, and she always says 'what about ex, what will she think, she will kill me' etc.

 

[JumpOff]

She's making excuses. If she wanted to see you, she would find the time. Dead this girl and move on.

 

[apprenticedj]

Let me give you some straight talk here mi amigo: At the end of the day is she worth it? Is any woman really worth the possible drama that this will cause? You're dealing with a potentially volcanic situation here, work, babies mama, new chick, your baby, it's all intermingled. In my opinion it's just not worth it. Politely cut off all talk with her and finalize the baby mama situation (end it or reconcile). If you decide to end it once and for all find women outside of work, there are so many out there. Best of luck.