"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Plate needs a job

cognac

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If one of your plates asks you if you're place is hiring because she needs a job would it be a bad idea to get them into your work place? Or to help her find a job somewhere else?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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boomerick

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Keep her away from your work just in case you part ways. You won't have to look at her everyday after you split.
 

Slickster

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Yes it's a bad idea!

Let her find her own job!

Cognac you are displaying some pretty poor behaviour as of late. Your other post about paying for a girl's flight so she could come home for xmas was bad too.

Do you expect to get sex out of these women by helping them through their troubles? It doesn't work that way.

Wise up or get chumped.
 

cognac

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Yeah i know I need to pull my head out of my four point of contact. Rough times been draggin me down. I'm gonna tell her they aren't hiring at my place and don't worry you'll find somethin.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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If she has any under the desk experience as a secretary, I may have a position she can fill:cool:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don Israel

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to all those who will go through this:

If you want a relationship with her forget it.

If you just wanna bang her, it makes no difference : do as you wish.

If you wanna use the fact that you got her a job to 'up' your social status as the "man who can help" then go right ahead.





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L B

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Try to keep the personal and professional life separated if possible.
 
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