“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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plate is playing games.. any advice

soulforge

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So this chick I have been banging for last 6 months, is not messaging as much as she used to.. she seems to be deliberetly taking her time to message back on whatsapp..

She used to message me every morning and night.. but now she does not...


How to deal with her? I don't want a relationship with her, just want to bang her every often... she is defo low value, but nice body..


So if she is distancing herself, should I pull away even further? Or just dump her ass?


She is an attention *****, constantly taking pics of herself in slutty underwear and her tiits out...

High possibility she could be banging another dude... she is always out drinking on weekends. .


She sends me the odd message on whatsapp, just a simple hello, or a xxx

But she does not try to strike a conversation? Should I just ignore these messages, untill she has something substantiol to say?

I have another post about her on here
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Any tips guys? I get the odd pointless message off here, is it even worth responding back to these msgs
 

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soulforge said:
So if she is distancing herself, should I pull away even further?
Of course

soulforge said:
Or just dump her ass?

I don't want a relationship with her, just want to bang her every often... she is defo low value, but nice body..
If you're not invested in her emotionally, there's nothing to dump.

soulforge said:
High possibility she could be banging another dude...
Based on her behavior you should assume that she is. The question is, why do you care?

soulforge said:
She sends me the odd message on whatsapp, just a simple hello, or a xxx

Should I just ignore these messages, untill she has something substantiol to say?
Generally I think you should ignore all her messages unless it's something actually interesting or funny. In which case, respond but briefly.
 

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This is whats annoying me, she keeps sending the odd pointless message... almost as if, she wants to keep me around...

She sent me a simple xx today

Fuk am I supposed to say to that
 

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you're damn annoying you know...

You got plenty of replies in your previous thread.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If she keeps on bieng distant, do I just keep ignoring her


Or at some point, send her a message and dump her?
 

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She pulls back 10 feet, you pull back a mile. Not much else you can do except mirror her behavior x 10. Or just drop her like a hot rock if you're not feeling it anymore.
 

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GS750 said:
She pulls back 10 feet, you pull back a mile. Not much else you can do except mirror her behavior x 10. Or just drop her like a hot rock if you're not feeling it anymore.
I, m going to give her a week, if this situation carries on, then I will dump her ass..


I, m only getting sex off her once every 3 weeks, sometimes once a month. .

Thats pretty pathetic...
 

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Not sure why you guys take plates so seriously. Plates are only used to get sex at your convenience. Not to get upset over if they start pulling off. If she starts playing games, not putting out there's another dude she's getting serious with. When you have other plates you can use it shouldn't be a problem. Just get another to one replace her with when you can. Always have more than one plate.
 

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I have got another plate... just not sure what to do with this one..

Not getting much sex off her, so maybe just cut the chord
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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this is crap behavior. What do you do when someone treats you like crap? No, you don't for more, nor do you try to make it right. You just give your time and attention to people with a bit of class.
 

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I still get the odd text off her, just a simple goodmorning etc etc.. I, m going to keep pulling away, she is supposed to be coming over for sex at the weekend, if she does not come over, then I will dump her ass...

I am getting sex off her once a month..

She is playing games?
Acting distant?

Also a very high probability she could be also fuking another dude..and could be preparing to branch swing


She is also an attention *****.... low quality

Does not seem worth while, keeping this plate around...
 

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There are other dudes. Just keep fvcking her, wear a condom. Why would you want to dump her? You're too emotionally invested in this woman. You need to back off and only contact her when you want sex. If she pushes back wait for her to reach out to you, then try and get her to come over, if she won't then back off wait for her to contact you and try again. Meanwhile just go fvck other women.

No need to make a big emotional chick like production of dumping her. If she's tired of you let her drift away.

Again with all this texting BS. I don't respond to any of the stuff unless a woman texts me that she's naked in her bed waiting for me then I just text "on my way be there in ..... minutes"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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