Plate is disinterested?

[mustfirstregister]

A girl, let's call her girl-A I sex 2 months ago who lives in a different city is coming back to celebrate X-Mas. During this gap period I texted her once every week or every 2 weeks because I have a regular-A in the current city and didn't really want to get her or myself attached . However I can tell her interaction with me is not as enjoyable as before I sex her.

I remember a few years ago I had the same problem I had a regular-B and was seeing girl-B once every 2 weeks. Before sex girl-B she was very happy and interested talking to me however the interaction gradually changed. e.g: When I ask her questions, she gives one word answer. However I can tell she was still interested.

The same thing is happening with girl-A in this moment. I wanna sex her when she is back to the city. But I'm afraid if I mention sex to her she would be thinking that I only want sex with her and I might mess it up, it's a really fine line. If anyone who has any experience like this before I need to know how to have girl-a to sex me whenever she is in the city and I need her to be back to normal. How could I achieve this?

 

[Dominance]

Don't mention it to her, just get together with her and go for it instead of talking about it directly.

And don't call girls 'plates' or anything else, it's not good for your mindset.

 

[mustfirstregister]

My question is how to ask her out when she is back to the city.

 

[Dominance]

Ah ok sorry it sounded like you wanted to send a message along of the lines "lets have sex".

It can be as simple as "lets go out when your in the city" and if she wants to she will let you know when she is back.