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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Plate/GF Begins being argumentative in the presence of other men

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So I was at the Library, this guy exits Library with GF, they then come back and GF now wants to sit in front of this group of guys that are just staring her BF right down, so he walks away, leaves her standing there for about 20 seconds then she just goes HUFF and makes a bit of a scene.

I know it's not a great interaction to highlight, I mean it's basic, just a seating arrangement but regardless, how would you deal with the situation of her being combative or opinionated in front of other men?

Also, as he walked off leaving her behind one of the guys in the group caught her eye which prompted her to choose the seat there, do you think her intent is attention seeking? Was she even conscious of her actions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So I was at the Library, this guy exits Library with GF, they then come back and GF now wants to sit in front of this group of guys that are just staring her BF right down, so he walks away, leaves her standing there for about 20 seconds then she just goes HUFF and makes a bit of a scene.

I know it's not a great interaction to highlight, I mean it's basic, just a seating arrangement but regardless, how would you deal with the situation of her being combative or opinionated in front of other men?

Also, as he walked off leaving her behind one of the guys in the group caught her eye which prompted her to choose the seat there, do you think her intent is attention seeking? Was she even conscious of her actions?
Who knows if they were already arguing about something else. Maybe the guy just banged her sister.
 
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