Paarth Shah
Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 2, 2018
- Messages
- 55
- Reaction score
- 10
- Age
- 37
Relatively new plate, 2 weeks old. Followed guidelines well, no problems. 1st date went smooth, got the hot make out session. 2nd date was last night.
Mini Field Report:
Picked her up from work, took her to happy hour. She grew a bit insecure there, saying I just wanted to sleep with her and how she views herself as damaged goods as other guys have just slept and used her in the past. I neither validate nor affirm, just play it cool and collected, alpha style.
Drive her back to her car at work parking lot. Hot make out session followed by 2nd base followed by sex in back of my car. Drop her off, text her a few hours later to see if she got home safe. She replies she did and thanked me for good time.
A few min later, get two large texts saying she cant ever see me again because she feels bad she "threw" herself at me in my car. (Sex was her idea after I escalated the make out session). She states that she felt like a hypocrite as she was complaining about guys using her in the past and then she allowed herself to indulge tonight. I simply responded with saying "Dont be too hard on yourself, not a big deal. Get some rest, you've had a long week".
Analysis:
Not sure how to read this. She did cry a bit at the happy hour because she said she didnt grow up with a father, etc.. How should I read into this? Insecurity requiring some more validation or should I view these as some type of red flags?
Mini Field Report:
Picked her up from work, took her to happy hour. She grew a bit insecure there, saying I just wanted to sleep with her and how she views herself as damaged goods as other guys have just slept and used her in the past. I neither validate nor affirm, just play it cool and collected, alpha style.
Drive her back to her car at work parking lot. Hot make out session followed by 2nd base followed by sex in back of my car. Drop her off, text her a few hours later to see if she got home safe. She replies she did and thanked me for good time.
A few min later, get two large texts saying she cant ever see me again because she feels bad she "threw" herself at me in my car. (Sex was her idea after I escalated the make out session). She states that she felt like a hypocrite as she was complaining about guys using her in the past and then she allowed herself to indulge tonight. I simply responded with saying "Dont be too hard on yourself, not a big deal. Get some rest, you've had a long week".
Analysis:
Not sure how to read this. She did cry a bit at the happy hour because she said she didnt grow up with a father, etc.. How should I read into this? Insecurity requiring some more validation or should I view these as some type of red flags?
