pyros
Master Don Juan
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So I met this 20 years old last year. We had five dates, we had sex on date 5 at her place.
I did not really like her personality, and she seemed pretty mentally unstable, but ok, she was just a plate.
Then after our last date she flaked on me once, she said I'll text you later so you know when I get home, and she never did. A few days later I texted her again and she said that she did not want to continue seing me, I asked why, and she said: 'because you go to latin clubs'. I dont know if she was for real but I took her once to a salsa club, and she did not like it, and she did not like me dancing with other girls.
Besides, I felt she was still hung up on her ex because of the things she said etc, so I think this was the real reason why she stopped talking to me.
Her whatsapp status says now something like: 'some people dont want to lose you but dont know how to treat you well', so I think she's still hung up on her ex or something.
A couple of months ago I added her on fb just to have a look at her life, and today she texted me out of the blue.
I replied, we talked for a bit, and I asked her out. She said she had a busy week, but she will be free on the weekend. And then...she asked me this:
her: do you remember why we stopped talking?
me: no
me: do you? (I wanted her to answer this to check if what she told me in the past was true or not)
her: not really
me: great, then it will remain a mystery forever
I think this will lead nowhere because if she didnt mind to stop talking to me once, I dont think she really wants me, but since I dont have any other plates at the moment that's fine.
Thoughts?
Should I go the sex route? or should I start slowly for at least one or two dates?
I did not really like her personality, and she seemed pretty mentally unstable, but ok, she was just a plate.
Then after our last date she flaked on me once, she said I'll text you later so you know when I get home, and she never did. A few days later I texted her again and she said that she did not want to continue seing me, I asked why, and she said: 'because you go to latin clubs'. I dont know if she was for real but I took her once to a salsa club, and she did not like it, and she did not like me dancing with other girls.
Besides, I felt she was still hung up on her ex because of the things she said etc, so I think this was the real reason why she stopped talking to me.
Her whatsapp status says now something like: 'some people dont want to lose you but dont know how to treat you well', so I think she's still hung up on her ex or something.
A couple of months ago I added her on fb just to have a look at her life, and today she texted me out of the blue.
I replied, we talked for a bit, and I asked her out. She said she had a busy week, but she will be free on the weekend. And then...she asked me this:
her: do you remember why we stopped talking?
me: no
me: do you? (I wanted her to answer this to check if what she told me in the past was true or not)
her: not really
me: great, then it will remain a mystery forever
I think this will lead nowhere because if she didnt mind to stop talking to me once, I dont think she really wants me, but since I dont have any other plates at the moment that's fine.
Thoughts?
Should I go the sex route? or should I start slowly for at least one or two dates?
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