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Plate and Frame Management on a Small College Campus

CollegeMan22

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Hey guys,

I'm having the most success of my life with women right now at college. I go out with 3-5 women per week. I don't bang most of them, but I have one girl [call her Chloe] right now who is devoted to me (texts within a minute, regular bangs, compliments) and I've made out with eight girls this semester (banged 3/8). I don't have a car, but there is a great, secluded park area on my campus where I bring girls. I just tell them we are going on a walk, I sit them down at a bench, put my arm around them, keep talking for an hour, start rubbing their thighs/hands, and then use my hand to move their head for a kiss/make out. Then we go from there. The girls usually get embarrassed and say they are "awkward" around me, because I maintain a High Value frame. I've advised two girls on how to properly make out / French kiss :lol:.

As my number of girls increases, I find myself thinking about what will happen if one of the girls who I go out with sees me with other girls, whether walking on campus or out in the park area. I'm big into kino, so I usually hold my girl's hand while I walk. And sometimes she just grabs mine.

Chloe is good for a LTR. I'm her first kiss, first makeout, first BJ, first everything. She's virginal and the opposite of a *****. She's right-wing and never gets triggered. But at the same time the conquest of new women, the conquest of getting a new makeout, a new bang, is just too fun. I love spinning plates. It makes you feel like a champion.

So my questions for you guys are:

1) Should I worry that plates of mine will see other plates with me?
2) How do I maintain my frame when a girl says she wants "something more serious" and I don't want that?
3) Am I supposed to be forthright with girls right away that I am going out with other girls right now? (I usually tell stories of bad dates that I've went on to tell girls implicitly that I have expectations)
4) What do I tell a girl when she says she wants to "take it slow"? (I usually respond with something like, "oh, yeah we'll kiss in 10 years")
 

2Rocky

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1) Should I worry that plates of mine will see other plates with me?

You treat Plates different than Dates. Best I can explain it is when you are dating a girl, it's public. A plate is in private, and that meeting is discrete. Don't treat one like the other.
2) How do I maintain my frame when a girl says she wants "something more serious" and I don't want that?
"I have a path I am on where I can not commit myself romantically until I have completed my studies and entered the workforce. I expect you are here for that as well? Let's enjoy this time together and evaluate our paths later..
3) Am I supposed to be forthright with girls right away that I am going out with other girls right now? (I usually tell stories of bad dates that I've went on to tell girls implicitly that I have expectations)
Wait for a direct question, but don't answer with specifics. Emphasize no expectations...

4) What do I tell a girl when she says she wants to "take it slow"? (I usually respond with something like, "oh, yeah we'll kiss in 10 years")
" I'm a passionate person. I show my affection physically . You've heard of the 5 love languages?

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Dr.Suave

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Spinning plates might get old after a while. You should consider going exclusive with Chloe. As you age, it wil be harder and harder to find someone like her.
 
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