plate act like we are dating?

[Jetleg]

what is the line not to be crossed with a plate?

i met a new hot chick, i told her i just want to f*ck, she said she wants the same thing, so now we are FB.
she lives on my campus, and so am i so its practical.

not that i'm complaining, but she always comes by to my apartment with food, cooking for me at least once a week (often not even staying here), and offers to do stuf that i haven't done with plates (wants to go to see a movie, wants to cook together and what ever) - is she trying to convice me into dating her? or to she tries to friendzone me?

i havent said yes, but i just want to bang her, i think that if i will do to many activities with her, she will see me as a friend, what do you think?

 

[El Payaso]

So are you guys f*cking or not? Is the sex consistent?

 

[Jetleg]

yeah man, but its always on her terms (she will send me a text saying she wants to *meet*), like once in 2 weeks, because im busy

 

[parkthebus]

She's investing in you. Let her. Go see a movie with her, but make sure you bang her after.

 

[Reykhel]

Plate spinning : Also know as a "Soft Harem", is "dating" multiple women at once
without commitment.

So it's like having multiple mini non-exclusive sexual relationships........once your fvcking her, it's
no harm at all doing other things together just as you would in a girlfriend strategy conventional
relationships.....

She wants to cook for you........good.

However, that is of course if you want to do other ****e with her.....

Women: sex and companionship.

 

[Jetleg]

i'm confused by her.
She tells me every time she she doesnt want to be in a relationship" i say "cool", but my gut tells me she goes to far, she will always sleep over when she is in my place, even though she literally lives 5 meters from my house, and always want to cuddle and kiss and all this sh1t.

the biggest red flag: she makes mariage jokes, commenting how my last name would fit her, how our children would look like, i'm freaked out man, i'm not built for this sh1t, but damn she is one of the hottest chicks i've ever banged.

 

[Glumix]

i'm freaked out man, i'm not built for this sh1t, but damn she is one of the hottest chicks i've ever banged.

So learn to say No and your fear will disappear.

 

[parkthebus]

Well you know she wants an exclusive relationship then. You have three choices. Bang her until she either accepts you won't be in one with her and you keep banging. Let her eventually break things off with you because she wants commitment. Break things off with her now to avoid the drama.

 

[stevo]

So far, you have no reason to worry.

What you've described is a girl with high interest level, get used to it.

 

[Trump]

what is the line not to be crossed with a plate? she always comes by to my apartment with food, cooking for me at least once a week (often not even staying here), and offers to do stuf that i haven't done with plates (wants to go to see a movie, wants to cook together and what ever) - is she trying to convice me into dating her? or to she tries to friendzone me?

i havent said yes, but i just want to bang her, i think that if i will do to many activities with her, she will see me as a friend, what do you think?

She tells me every time she she doesnt want to be in a relationship" i say "cool", but my gut tells me she goes to far, she will always sleep over when she is in my place, even though she literally lives 5 meters from my house, and always want to cuddle and kiss and all this sh1t.

the biggest red flag: she makes mariage jokes, commenting how my last name would fit her, how our children would look like, i'm freaked out man, i'm not built for this sh1t, but damn she is one of the hottest chicks i've ever banged.

Bro the question doesn't make much sense. Are you freaking out because:

- if you do too much stuff with her she will see you as a friend and she will stop giving you sex? or
- if you do too much stuff with her she will want to have constant sex with you and have your babies and start a family with you because she is so in love with you?

On one hand you ask what is the line not to be crossed, on the other hand you don't want her to see you as a friend.

If you are that worried that she is so in love with you, just tell her you are too rock and roll to be tied down to one woman.