"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Planting ideas in women's heads & such - super sneaky sh!t
- Thread starter UberPhil
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It will work way better as if you are naturally happy and not bitter though, although things like jealousy, domination, and sh!t may still work.. when your always happy and agressive people want to feel and suck the energy off you. It's a lot easier then purposly trying to manipulate.
Not saying the dark side does not work of course it does. But that's pretty fvcking sad.
You can't plant ideas, you can just act a certain way where they get an impression of a way to preceive you as. They will then preceive you as this personality being charismatic, full of energy, and yet sort of selfish. For some reason all ch!cks like that specific personality. But when your naturally happy, again it works without the manipulation.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Vulpine
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Oh, you'd be a perfect couple. Mr. and Mrs. Bitter. You could get married and have little Bitters.UberPhil said:
LoL@misogynist in a stip club getting one-itis
:crackup:
oakraiderz2
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If she's sober yeah got to do that. Kind of hard to do that when your actually a creepy bastard trying to control her mind. So either go to a bar and look for really drunk chicks and make fun of them or actually get a life.UberPhil said:
though it was sweet. Just think different, if you can't have her now, she ain't ready for a MAN like you, she needs to clear her head, get ****ed up by some other guys, and sooner or later you will get your chance to do that too ...Just train on some more girls and BTW my signature is an advice for you
... You really got hurt by this girl I'm guessing? Next time make sure your eye isen't stuck on just one girl , because if it gets f*cked up you got some reserves... hope this was any help ciao