"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Plant Triggers :)

Jack-Torrance

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TRIGGERS:

Triggers, are things which can set off thoughts and feelings... Triggers come in different types, ET (emotional triggers), PT (physical triggers) and TT/MT (Thought Triggers/mental Triggers)... A trigger is usually an object, though you can always spray a bit of the distinctive smelling aftershave which you are wearing, onto something she has without her noticing... Such as her bag if she has one... This way, when you go home, she has something there, something you planted which will keep you in her line of thoughts. If all she is smelling is your distinctive smelling aftershave, who do you think she is going to be thinking of? You guessed it, (it's you), if she keeps seeing something which you pointed out to her or showed her just before you kissed her (or afterwards for that matter), who do you think she is going to be thinking of? You guessed it again (come on you must have, it's you again)... If it is an object you can pretend it is a very prized possession of yours, and you can tell her some amazing story of how you got it which also makes great conversation aswell, even if it is only made up... (I suggest you use an item which really IS a prized possession and really HAS got some amazing story behind it however)... Like I said there are different types of triggers, you can probably guess what each one does, but here is the low down...

ET - An object or smell or whatever, that will trigger emotions inside of her (preferably strong, obviously).
PT - Physical triggers are quite rare, but if you link it to like the best kiss or lay she's going to ever have in her life, some of them feelings are going to come flooding back to her...
TT/MT - This is when the object or whatever gives her deep thoughts about you...

If you manage to master using these, then you are going to have a really fun time using them.

Feel free to correct me I would benefit from that...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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