"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Plant Triggers :)

Jack-Torrance

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TRIGGERS:

Triggers, are things which can set off thoughts and feelings... Triggers come in different types, ET (emotional triggers), PT (physical triggers) and TT/MT (Thought Triggers/mental Triggers)... A trigger is usually an object, though you can always spray a bit of the distinctive smelling aftershave which you are wearing, onto something she has without her noticing... Such as her bag if she has one... This way, when you go home, she has something there, something you planted which will keep you in her line of thoughts. If all she is smelling is your distinctive smelling aftershave, who do you think she is going to be thinking of? You guessed it, (it's you), if she keeps seeing something which you pointed out to her or showed her just before you kissed her (or afterwards for that matter), who do you think she is going to be thinking of? You guessed it again (come on you must have, it's you again)... If it is an object you can pretend it is a very prized possession of yours, and you can tell her some amazing story of how you got it which also makes great conversation aswell, even if it is only made up... (I suggest you use an item which really IS a prized possession and really HAS got some amazing story behind it however)... Like I said there are different types of triggers, you can probably guess what each one does, but here is the low down...

ET - An object or smell or whatever, that will trigger emotions inside of her (preferably strong, obviously).
PT - Physical triggers are quite rare, but if you link it to like the best kiss or lay she's going to ever have in her life, some of them feelings are going to come flooding back to her...
TT/MT - This is when the object or whatever gives her deep thoughts about you...

If you manage to master using these, then you are going to have a really fun time using them.

Feel free to correct me I would benefit from that...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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