Plant a Seed

[Solomon]

Hey fellas

I've been reading some of these articles semi-religious you could say. I see a lot of good posts, however I haven't seen much about "planting seeds". For those that don't know what planting a seed means. The best way to describe is, approaching a chick, introduce yourself very quickly then dip. For example

Solo: "Hey how are you doing tonight?"
hb: "fine thank you"
Solo: "you come here often? it's my first time whats a good drink at this bar?"
Hb: "mmmh, you can't go wrong with the gin and tonic"
Solo:"aww gin and tonic got it, my name is solo" *shake her hand, not to rough but gentle
hb: "my name is blah blah"
solo: "blah blah nice to meet you listen, I have to go find my friend, I'll see you on the dancefloor later.."
hb: *smiles* "ok"

^^while you are saying this, your body language is relaxed, non-threatening look her in the eyes as you speak, and smile. Then leave, it's that simple, now you wondering, what the hell is the purpose of planting a seed? it builds rapport!! The girl has meet you, so when you approach her later during the night after all the creeps have. All you have to do is smile and say her name, asks her if she is having fun, and conversation ensues.
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I use to plant seeds all the time, It works very well especially in a bigger club. I learned this from a natural. He would plant seeds all the time, he would act crazy (in a good way) and obnoxious, he would bump into girls on purpose (not to hard) and say excuse me, get their names and keep it moving. Girls were eating it up, I honestly couldn't believe he was getting away with some of this crap, but it's not what you do but how you do it. One thing I noticed about him was his body language portrayed a playfulness and fun and women loved that. Now I'm not saying bump into women, but when you approach a set, don't feel the need to always close right away. Sometimes you have to go along with the flow.

right now I'm going back to basics in terms of my game because before you can get to the advance level you have to have the basics mastered. and Building rapport is one of them

Thanks for reading

Solo

 

[Solomon]

damn this was slept on

 

[TheGameMaster]

its good, basic advice. like you said though the success of it rests ENTIRELY on the vibe running through you/your aura etc because girls can smell this.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Actually , this is great advice. What it does is it puts down her b1tch shield. Its helps you very much with the second approach because she already "knows" you.

Good one Solo.

PS: I tried to rep you on this one but it wrote that i have to spread some points.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Solomon again.

Ill rep you later . Peace

 

[AAAgent]

i do this too, but i don't go out of my way to do it.

 

[Solomon]

i do this too, but i don't go out of my way to do it.

What do you mean "out of your way"?

usually when I plant a seed is, when the girl is in my path, I don't run up on a girl on some "hi how ya doing". The way I see it is, eventually we are gonna be in the same vincity

 

[Lexington]

It's a solid strategy. You break the ice with her, but unlike most of the guys there, you don't come off as needy because you walk away. That tells her you don't need her; you've got other places to be and other things to do. It shows value.

 

[Cableguy]

I like this post. When I go to bars I'm always planting seeds. Tons of them. I can especially relate to the whole "I'll see you on the dance floor later." This basic approach has worked for me for years and honestly is what got me over my fear of approaching. Get in and get out. The second interaction is so much smoother and comfortable. It's like "hey...I know you!"

 

[nicelife]

def slept on man! thanks for bringing it back alive

think this should help me better with club game, puts way less pressure on the initial conversation!

chur chur!