Planning approach for tomorrow...help!

[Jonblood]

Hot looking athletic girl in my 400 person lecture. Planning what it will hopefully go like tomorrow. When she walks in I'll go over from where I currently placed my stuff.

Hey, is this seat taken?
You're a cool looking girl and I wanted to meet you before the end of the semester.
Name exchange hometown blah blah blah
Are you an athlete? lead to a joke/kino etc
I have to admit something, I don't think you're cool looking. I came here cus i think you're cute. (If it's going well).
Number close, and go back to my seat.

equation for success?

 

[xdreamz]

keep your plan vague. don't look for specific things to say because your calculated-ness will ruin your effect, be confident in your skill and just organize it so your ending is where you have fixed on her a role and the number close is just a natural occurrence. then make sure you talk to her a little bit more b4 you eject.

 

[thefonz]

You're in college right?
This is a semestor long course right?

Don't try to practice cold approach tactics in college. I would get rid of the direct "I wanted to come meet you." and replace it with something indirect, "Wow that homework was rough, I got like half it done." and just lead into something she's wearing, Make her laugh, talk about all the social stuff going on around campus, ask her if she knows common people, major etc. Just keep talking and don't try to do it all in one day because you have a whole semestor to build comfort. This is were lifestyle development becomes so important.

I would avoid coming on too hard because unlike getting blown out in nightclub, a school reputation tends to follow you around. Just go out and meet people normally, be a cool guy, and let others build your reputation for you.

 

[the305]

thefonz pretty much hit it dead on.

A good rule of thumb is don't ever go direct on someone you will most likely see again, cause theres simply no need to, just build rapport with her which will increase your chances with her drastically over just swinging for the fence with a cold approach.

Approaching and saying "your a cool looking girl" is a bit weird, i'm not sure a lot of chicks will be receptive to that

Also id suggest stop planning out how a interaction will go, your building up exceptions and pressure on a situation thats as little as a simple conversation, set goals instead, goal: start a convo with 5 girls you havent met before tomorrow.

 

[Jonblood]

Thanks guys. The class will be over in a couple weeks and most people sit in the same seat every day, so when I end up next to her it's going to be a bit obvious what my intentions are.