"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Plan to use breakup to put a girl in her place.

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My current girlfriend of 7 months scheduled unimportant appointments during this Saturday. We see each other once or twice during weekdays and almost always Saturdays. This week however, without asking me prior, she reschedules some appointments on this Saturday (Could have done it on a weekday, but she does not want to inconvenience the client anymore or some bull**** like that). This shows me that she does not respect and value the time that I make for her out of my busy schedule. I told her what she did was bull**** and hung up.

My plan is to go NC for a about a week, if she does not try to fix things, I will call her up and tell her that I think she does not respect me or my time so I won't waste anymore one her then break up with her.

This I think will make her beg. I know that I shouldn't use breakups like this, but frankly I don't really care that much if I lose this 1, it would be nice to keep her but if not, no big deal.

So what do you guys think? Is this a good plan? Do you have better ideas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You are a demanding, needy, authoritarian, high-strung, pathetic d0uche. That's what I think. It's probably what your soon to be ex-GF also thinks.
 
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This week however, without asking me prior, she reschedules some appointments on this Saturday (Could have done it on a weekday, but she does not want to inconvenience the client anymore or some bull**** like that). This shows me that she does not respect and value the time that I make for her out of my busy schedule. I told her what she did was bull**** and hung up.
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How in hell did you come to own this woman's life? If she needs to get 5hit done on the weekend, then let her do it. Getting all emotionally pissy over it isn't going to make you more attractive. Letting her do it will because she will miss out on spending time with you. If you just said "Okay baby, I've got some stuff to get done as well" I guarantee she would have been thinking about you while she's getting her 5hit done. That's what you want - to get yourself stuck in her brain.

Now call her up and apologize for being a d1ck.
 
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sounds like you have anger issues bro. girls do dumb **** all the time that shouldnt be taken personally, learn to let things go. what kind of guy are you if you are willing to retaliate like this, would it be cool if she was the same way?? you shouldnt want to take revenge on your gf cause she had to reschedule seeing you because of work. you are sounding like the guy who comes home and wants to beat his woman for not having dinner ready. you arent going to put her in her place or teach her any lesson, she just wont understand why you are being crazy. you need to learn to relax. you probably owe her an apology.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Penguin69 said:
My current girlfriend of 7 months scheduled unimportant appointments during this Saturday. We see each other once or twice during weekdays and almost always Saturdays. This week however, without asking me prior, she reschedules some appointments on this Saturday (Could have done it on a weekday, but she does not want to inconvenience the client anymore or some bull**** like that). This shows me that she does not respect and value the time that I make for her out of my busy schedule. I told her what she did was bull**** and hung up.

My plan is to go NC for a about a week, if she does not try to fix things, I will call her up and tell her that I think she does not respect me or my time so I won't waste anymore one her then break up with her.

This I think will make her beg. I know that I shouldn't use breakups like this, but frankly I don't really care that much if I lose this 1, it would be nice to keep her but if not, no big deal.

So what do you guys think? Is this a good plan? Do you have better ideas?
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You said the appointments were "unimportant". Are they? I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt here. There must be other thngs that have led to this point. Is this situation just the straw that broke the camels back? I mean, has she been b1tchy, distant, disprectful, etc?

You must have been picking up on gamey bull5hit for a while. If this is a first offense and you're reacting this way, that's a little over the top.
 
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