I rest my case. :yes:sassygirlie89 said:You are still a d*ck!!! This guy that I have seen twice and who I banged twice is turning out to be an a**hole just like you.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I rest my case. :yes:sassygirlie89 said:You are still a d*ck!!! This guy that I have seen twice and who I banged twice is turning out to be an a**hole just like you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
good, because your not, god doesnt like ugly:crackup:sassygirlie89 said:Ye must all think ye are god's gift
Thank god I am not like that![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Please enlighten us then.. what's the definition?TillTheEndOfTime said:I think anyone using the term "white knight" to disparage people criticizing a guy acting like a d1ck need to take another look at the definition.
Zarky said:Please enlighten us then.. what's the definition?
See I think that might be the difference. I'm sort of an "OG" in the seduction community. Back in the mid- to late-90s seduction wasn't really about "bettering" themselves or the world, other than "bettering" yourself by learning how to bang more b*tches. It was about getting p*ssy, and to me it still is.I remember when I first came to this site 10 years ago or so. It was a bunch of guys who were working to better themselves as a entire person, not just to pick up girls.
That's silly. How are y'all "helping" other men? By b*tching non-stop? I tell men: Don't get married, don't have kids, don't knock up chicks, and be smart don't get yourself into a situation where she could cry rape. If you want to vote for lawmakers that further your MRA political agenda, go for it. I might too. But sitting around whining like babies about things you think aren't fair is hardly "helping" the world.The "better thing he has to do" is to shame and attack others on here for daring to help other men become aware of and protect themselves from misandry.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lol so sad , you think that blowing a date off is relateable to gangs ? what kind of sheltered life to you live ? if this guy wants to control this situation for what ever reason , who the hell cares , I for one am thankful that there are guys like him out there able to tell us what they are doing . not afraid of all the angry guys who are so desperate that they would cling on to any woman that would let them touch themcordoncordon said:You are just saying that because it's the "cool" thing to say right now. You don't even know what it means. I am really am getting exasperated at the number of guys on here who think being C & F means being an azz to someone just to hurt them. That is so far above and beyond to be extreme. Since when did it become the norm and cool to fawk with a person just because you can? I know that low class citizens with no life do that on the streets while in gangs and such, but fine, reputable, upstanding people? That's an ok thing to do now?
To WK means to go out of your way to supplicate to a girl, to be extra nice, all in the hopes it will get you some play. It does not mean being a total d!ckhead and sadistic azz just because you can. This site is supposed to be about bettering yourself as a person, as a man, as a human being. By being as honorable, as manly, as noble as you can be. It is about furthering your career. Your family life. Your hobbies. Basically it is about being the best person you can be. If you think that means going out of your way to hurt a person who has done nothing but try to please you, as this girl in the OP appears to be doing, just for the hell of it-just to be mean, then you have a very sorry, depressive, empty excuse for a life.
Good idea, because you could easily fall for a guy who would do the same thing to you , if works on all of you the same anyways throw a little drama in there n there addicted lol its comical really like additcssassygirlie89 said:Why has it turned to crap??
By the way you are still a d*ck
And yes need we keep reminding you that yes you are sadistic and a right creep..
But good luck with whatever you are doing anyway, you seem to be enjoying it
Note to self: Never decide to plan a holiday to Southern California
your definition describes you perfectly , the read the post of zarky putting a girl in distress simply by standing her up , and here you come rushing in to lay shame on everyone from your high horsecordoncordon said:I think I explained it pretty well in post 41. A guy who sees the typical maiden in distress, and believes that he can help her. A male version of the "mother figure" that some girls become.
To WK means to go out of your way to supplicate to a girl, to be extra nice, all in the hopes it will get you some play. It does not mean being a total d!ckhead and sadistic azz just because you can. This site is supposed to be about bettering yourself as a person, as a man, as a human being. By being as honorable, as manly, as noble as you can be. It is about furthering your career. Your family life. Your hobbies. Basically it is about being the best person you can be. If you think that means going out of your way to hurt a person who has done nothing but try to please you, as this girl in the OP appears to be doing, just for the hell of it-just to be mean, then you have a very sorry, depressive, empty excuse for a life.
I remember when I first came to this site 10 years ago or so. It was a bunch of guys who were working to better themselves as a entire person, not just to pick up girls. It was about values, and morals, and doing the right thing. The guy upthread was dead on. This site has gone to sh1t. How do you have that much time and lack of anything better going on where you can literally spend valuable time and energy going out of your way just to fawk with someone who, from what I can tell, has done nothing but treat you like a king?
I don't get it. Aren't you close to 40 years old? This is something a 16 year old kid would do. Don't you have better things to do Zarky?
this all the way , if you dont like his harshness atleast look at it from a scientific standpoint learn something , seeing a real reaction to a planned emotional shock is pricelessDesdinova said:Okay people, don't let Sassything bung up a perfectly good thread.
I still would have loved to see Zarky play this one out. When someone in the field gets experimental with dating or sex, it can really open up your eyes. When you know how a woman's emotions work, you can get things to work in your advantage. I've done it many, many times and it really pays off.
It doesn't make you a d1ck. It makes you a master of all women![]()