"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I got the number of this girl I met on campus. My whole purpose of getting the number is not to bull**** on the phone, but to ask her out. We have been playing phone tag for the past week.

However, I have already run into her in the cafeteria once and in the library twice and talked all three times (all in the past week) ....some lasting more than 10 minutes. I do not want to ask her out in person, but over the phone.

Should I keep trying to get her on the phone or just ask her out in person before she starts to lose Interest.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by mahon83050
I got the number of this girl I met on campus. My whole purpose of getting the number is not to bull**** on the phone, but to ask her out. We have been playing phone tag for the past week.

However, I have already run into her in the cafeteria once and in the library twice and talked all three times (all in the past week) ....some lasting more than 10 minutes. I do not want to ask her out in person, but over the phone.

Should I keep trying to get her on the phone or just ask her out in person before she starts to lose Interest.
Okay.. Relax lol... Your thinking too much. Lay it smooth... How? Well... get the smooth talking on the phone... I dont mean "****y n Funny" No.. i mean smooth your voice out. Make your tone stand out.. but dont try too hard.. Catch her alone... Dress up good.. most importantly smell good. *curve* cologne. Bring her a single rose... (yea yea ima get flamed for saying this, thats being a Puss and blah blah) bring that rose.. and say " Hey, .... Smooth talk... Whats up.. blah blah.) then ( i brought you this) give it to her.... then when she smiles... come out with... (would you like to get something to eat later? or maybe a movie) Treat her all sweet.. Then lean in for that kiss. BOOM ull have her in your bed, if you play your cards right. Always, ALWAYS smell good... Girls run an "Emotion engine" and if you get her motor runnin.. shes gonna be all ova you. ;)
 

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single red rose, bad advice.

unless you're following up something jerk-ish you did and you're just wanting to sending mixed signals. i like sending mixed signals.
 

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Originally posted by reyalp
single red rose, bad advice.

unless you're following up something jerk-ish you did and you're just wanting to sending mixed signals. i like sending mixed signals.
Well... the Red rose lays the table IMO. Why? because now she knows you like her. And the reason why i state that smelling and lookin your best at that moment is because one she gets the rose.. she will look at you in a different light, as in thinking ... "hes cute" and accept a date with you. From there. if the night is played well.. will go as smooth a gravy.
 

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but you're talking to her, she already knows you like her. women don't have to receive an overt clue as to whether you like them or not, 90% of the time they just know it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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