"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I got the number of this girl I met on campus. My whole purpose of getting the number is not to bull**** on the phone, but to ask her out. We have been playing phone tag for the past week.

However, I have already run into her in the cafeteria once and in the library twice and talked all three times (all in the past week) ....some lasting more than 10 minutes. I do not want to ask her out in person, but over the phone.

Should I keep trying to get her on the phone or just ask her out in person before she starts to lose Interest.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by mahon83050
I got the number of this girl I met on campus. My whole purpose of getting the number is not to bull**** on the phone, but to ask her out. We have been playing phone tag for the past week.

However, I have already run into her in the cafeteria once and in the library twice and talked all three times (all in the past week) ....some lasting more than 10 minutes. I do not want to ask her out in person, but over the phone.

Should I keep trying to get her on the phone or just ask her out in person before she starts to lose Interest.
Okay.. Relax lol... Your thinking too much. Lay it smooth... How? Well... get the smooth talking on the phone... I dont mean "****y n Funny" No.. i mean smooth your voice out. Make your tone stand out.. but dont try too hard.. Catch her alone... Dress up good.. most importantly smell good. *curve* cologne. Bring her a single rose... (yea yea ima get flamed for saying this, thats being a Puss and blah blah) bring that rose.. and say " Hey, .... Smooth talk... Whats up.. blah blah.) then ( i brought you this) give it to her.... then when she smiles... come out with... (would you like to get something to eat later? or maybe a movie) Treat her all sweet.. Then lean in for that kiss. BOOM ull have her in your bed, if you play your cards right. Always, ALWAYS smell good... Girls run an "Emotion engine" and if you get her motor runnin.. shes gonna be all ova you. ;)
 

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single red rose, bad advice.

unless you're following up something jerk-ish you did and you're just wanting to sending mixed signals. i like sending mixed signals.
 

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Originally posted by reyalp
single red rose, bad advice.

unless you're following up something jerk-ish you did and you're just wanting to sending mixed signals. i like sending mixed signals.
Well... the Red rose lays the table IMO. Why? because now she knows you like her. And the reason why i state that smelling and lookin your best at that moment is because one she gets the rose.. she will look at you in a different light, as in thinking ... "hes cute" and accept a date with you. From there. if the night is played well.. will go as smooth a gravy.
 

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but you're talking to her, she already knows you like her. women don't have to receive an overt clue as to whether you like them or not, 90% of the time they just know it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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