"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Plain T-Shirts

SamMalone

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What do you think of them? I'm talking about a nice blue Calvin Klein type of t-shirt. Do "brand" logos on the front of shirt look better to you or does a plain shirt look better?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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picard

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plain cotton T-shirt will stretch. It is best to buy polyester + spandex version T-shirt that will conform to your body. It will last much longer. I bought one in Canada at www.MEC.ca store. This is outdoor store. I won't use cotton t-shirt.
 

SamMalone

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Any other tips for this? I saw some nice plain calvin klein shirts today but they fit somewhat weird. I prefer my tshirts be tighter on my body/more of a modern fit.
 

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Just whatever you think looks good. to me I like plain shirts, im not sure why.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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American Apparel is nice if you can get them from a wholesaler. I think the nicest T-shirts in the world are Jay Allen's, though. www.jayallen.biz
 

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Oh man, my life would be so much easier if I could wear plain white t-shirts every day.

I think as long the logo isn't outlandish, there's nothing wrong. I do however love my plain white Hanes's cotton shirts. So comfortable.
 

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Just get a cheap $10 t-shirt from Walmart. Ten times cheaper than Calvin Klein, and you don't fret if you get dirty.
 

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Plain t-shirts are the kind of t-shirts that my father could wear when he's at home doing nothing
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tavii is the real deal, polo shirts are in over in our hood.
 
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