nice_guyeh
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looking for some fresh places to take a girl. im not talking movies,or mini putt. lets here some different ideas here that gona make here say,wow wtf omg this is awesome
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
places to take a girl. lets be unique here..
- Thread starter nice_guyeh
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Alex DeLarge
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If the girl is the adventurous type and you two aren't afriad to tresspass, Go on the roof of an abandoned with a bottle of wine and a blanket to sit on. Sounds creepy and sketchy but I do this often and chix love it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
escaleraroyal
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Didnt really plan it but tonite i was told kung fun panda is playing on the park i went there with my date it was fantastic, lots of people, shiny stars in the sky and kung fu panda 2 on huge ass screen its priceless. Had my arms around her the entire movie and some boob squeezing action too lol
I don't think most straight girls would be into these things.K2000kidd said:Posted something like this earlier in the zoo date thread. Anything PHYSICAL is good. Scuba Dives, Paint balling LaserTag, Rock climb, Parasailing, anything that would get blood pumping and points for coolness too
Anyway, the ultimate unique date idea is this:
A Night in Paris (or Rome…) Without Leaving Home
From Emilio
You decorate your apartment like a restaurant in a foreign country. Make it cheesy as possible while keeping it looking nice. Decorating is easy, use construction paper and cheap things you find at Michaels or something. Cheap and quick. Then you have a friend dress up like a waiter and speak in the accent of that country. Cook the themed food yourself and then have you friend “wait” on you two. He can buzz off after the food is served. It shows off your cooking skills, your romantic side, your sense of humor and your creativity.
http://artofmanliness.com/2009/02/10/15-creative-date-ideas/
EvilAgenda
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In order of fun/awesomness
Awesome Dates:
1. Water Park (Let's see, she is in a bikini, you two are screaming and having fun)
2. Ice Skating (Hold her hand, guide her, perfect first date)
3. Roller Coasters Park (Water Park is better)
4. Boating/Canoeing (This is just freaking fun, especially when you splash her)
Great Dates:
5. Zoo (Experience the Adventure in "different world regions")
6. Camping Trail leading to a "hidden" Waterfall (Mystery/Intrigue/Adventure/Romance)
7. Anything with a hell of a view (Look at #6)
8. Indoor Go-Karts Racing (You'll have fun and she will feed off your energy)
Descent Dates:
9. Dancing Boot Camp and then Club (Helps if you are already a good lead)
10. Comedy Club (Chill atmosphere, and can be freaking funny)
11. Museum/Observatory (A lot to look at)
12. Sight Seeing (Make sure to bring a camera)
Awesome Dates:
1. Water Park (Let's see, she is in a bikini, you two are screaming and having fun)
2. Ice Skating (Hold her hand, guide her, perfect first date)
3. Roller Coasters Park (Water Park is better)
4. Boating/Canoeing (This is just freaking fun, especially when you splash her)
Great Dates:
5. Zoo (Experience the Adventure in "different world regions")
6. Camping Trail leading to a "hidden" Waterfall (Mystery/Intrigue/Adventure/Romance)
7. Anything with a hell of a view (Look at #6)
8. Indoor Go-Karts Racing (You'll have fun and she will feed off your energy)
Descent Dates:
9. Dancing Boot Camp and then Club (Helps if you are already a good lead)
10. Comedy Club (Chill atmosphere, and can be freaking funny)
11. Museum/Observatory (A lot to look at)
12. Sight Seeing (Make sure to bring a camera)
escaleraroyal
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ice skating is not good for first date