"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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places to sarge (pick up chicks)

CaliGuyInLondon

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SO my wing and I are way obsessed. but he is under 21 so i was wondering some good places to sarge and meet girls during weeknights besides bars since he can't get in.

all ideas are welcome.

Ready, GO!!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Big Poppa

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Parks, Malls, Parties, Parades, Carnivals, the Movies, etc. There are plenty of places.
 

omega05

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i dont understand the commonality of this questions. females are EVERYWHERE
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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CaliGuyInLondon

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i understand that, i just meant are there specific places that have women in groups besides bars or clubs. like malls was kind of the answer i was lookin for so cheers for that
 
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