Hey DJs, where are some of the best places to meet girls during the summer? It seems like everywhere I go with my friends there are never any prospects. We've tried the mall, swimming pools, the park, etc, and there are never any girls there. The only place we've had any luck at all is at parties. What gives, where do all the cute girls go in the summer?
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Places to meet girls in summer?
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I have the same problem. The only girls I've met this summer have either been at a party or on vacation.
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MrP said:I have the same problem. The only girls I've met this summer have either been at a party or on vacation.
Seems I found a winner.I have the same problem. The only girls I've met this summer have either been at a party or on vacation.
Well thats great and all, except for I'm not made out of money here... I havent really went on any vacations this summer. In fact nothing for me until this winter (Hawaii), and then a long wait until spring break (Cancun).Moneytalks said:Seems I found a winner.
Hawaii and Cancun within a year?! That's awesome you'll have a great time. In the future going to a summer camp or some sort of camp on a college campus is a great way to get away from things and great place to meet girls.
If you are stuck at home it's a good time to get close to some girls right before school gets out especially any you can find that are gonna be in town for the summer. If you have a pool invite her over or maybe you'll get lucky and she has one.
Another option is to get a summer job paid or volunteer where you will have some female co-workers.
If you are stuck at home it's a good time to get close to some girls right before school gets out especially any you can find that are gonna be in town for the summer. If you have a pool invite her over or maybe you'll get lucky and she has one.
Another option is to get a summer job paid or volunteer where you will have some female co-workers.
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You asked where the girls are, and that's where they are.
at the beach getting tans, they also tend to drive out to free events like artsy events or when there is a festival present. to be honest a lot of the girls i met during summer was like way late at night cause in the summer all they did was sleep in then wake up and go out and party or w/e. plus a lot get summer jobs or go on vacation or go to summer school, shrinking your pool a bit in the summer