"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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simple as this, i wanna get a life, 24/7 (not quite) im on the computer geeking. just wanna go places with by myself/friends/chicks any other idea than..

ice skating
friends house
dance party
pool place
movie
party
mall
internet cafe (at least im going out..)
10 pin bowling
laser zone
rainbows end
gliding
snow planet (snowboarding place)
driving around
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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work on self improvement.....those are all great ideas of things to be doing yet you can't enjoy ANY of them, i bet you anything anyone offers you as an example you will shoot down cus either you've done it all at 16..:down: ...or you're just a miserable SOB and don't know it. Get some hobbies that make you happy, challenge yourself with djbootcamp.....TRY to do these things
 
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hehe nah i wont shoot down any answers! i love doing the thngs on my list hehe, i was just wanting to expand my life and doing some other cool things in life!

Fender made me make my decision

<Fender> but anyway mario, i find it incredibly important to develop a full life. i mean dude i've done everything from musical instruments to drag racing to flying planes to being infantry. i can say that i've lived, and man chicks are really attracted to that
<Fender> i choose to live life instead of letting it live me
 
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