"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pizza

zekko

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The other day I ordered a pizza.
The girl who delivered it was kind of cute, and she had red hair.
Now red hair is something of a weakness with me, so I found myself being a little extra pleasant toward her.

Then I shut the door and thought "Oh shoot, I was nice to her".
I guess I should have spit on her and made fun of her job or something.

Oh well.

Whatever happened to Jophil, by the way?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sometimes I think you're just joking. Other times though, I wonder if you really just don't get it.
 

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Uncle jo got his computer time shortened/reduced by the missus. He said hell be back in a few weeks.
 

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Lexington said:
Sometimes I think you're just joking. Other times though, I wonder if you really just don't get it.
You just never know, do you?
 

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Yes, a fallacy of equivocation: the "nice" act as opposed to the "nice" chump. Most here understand the difference, but for the newbie, the training wheels are needed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten said:
~ pass the pizza :D
Alas, the pizza has long since disappeared.
 
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