"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pitfalls Of Posting Pic On HotorNot...Dont Do It!

Young Stallion

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Locking....Own....Thread.

(How much time do I get for impersonating a moderator)?
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SoSuaveDude said:
why you trolling brah!?
Not trolling. With the amount of people asking about their looks on here these days, I wanted to warn my fellow sosuavers that HotorNot may not be the best way to get an honest answer.
 

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And this matters why?

I posted mine eons ago and got a 8.75 rating.

It was amusing to say the least and I did it out of curiousity and for laughs.

I was pretty shocked as I thought I'd get a 6.5/7.

In the end I guess people think I'm better looking than I think I am.
 
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