"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LaDanian Tomlinson

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i pretty much had the ****tiest weekend ever. first on friday this chick flakes on me after we had been planning to hang out for the whole week. she says we could hang out on saturday. so on saturday i call her up and leave a message to ask if she wants to go to the prom afterparty with me and she never calls me back. then later that night i was supposed to get picked up to go the afterparty anyways and my friend never calls me. so i had my whole weekend planned out and i ended up doing NOTHING on both friday and saturday nights. ****ing pisses me off.

what i'm most pissed about is that i didnt go to my senior prom and i planned on just going to the afterparty. but i didnt even go to the afterparty. I DID ABSOLUTLEY NOTHING FOR MY SENIOR PROM. ****!

should i even bother with this chick after she flaked on me TWICE in TWO nights? nothing pisses me off more when the chick won't even call to say she cant do anything. she simply ignored me. the only reason i would stay with her is cause shes hot and i have very few girl options.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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VegasGuy56

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No, you should either completely ignore her or tell her off and then completely ignore her for making you miss prom.
 
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Potbelly

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dude, i told you to go alone. now you're going to regret this the rest of your life. waiting on a girl is stupid. who needs a girl to have fun?
 
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LikRetsam

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Oh yes, please, keep venting. I mean there is absolutely no one else on this entire planet that could be in a situation worse than yours. Nope no one at all.

Quit being a little b!tch.
 
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WhAcKeD!

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Prom isn't all that great anyway, so who cares.

Screw this b!tch, don't even talk to her, just completely ignore her. If she calls you or tries to make contact with you, just ignore that as well.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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