"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rose_Of_Sharyn

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Both my parents are dead. I have other relatives back home (Brazil), I had to stay with the AMERICAN side so I can finish highschool here and get into college. I've stayed out of trouble, did everything that was asked by my uncle and aunt.

So today I'm grounded by my AUNT who thinks I skipped school. Even though I was sick and I had to do a final project. I'm a senior and today was the last day for SENIORS. All the seniors will get friday off, but I'm planning to go in tomorrow to hand in my final project and turn in papers. I'm also planning to go NEXT WEEK to take the finals.

I told her that I did all the work for tomorrow and that I want to go out with my friend for food cuz there's nothing LEFT TO EAT. This is what she said...

Her:"You're not allowed to go out and socialize with anyone today because you didnt go to school."
Me:"I'm going to school tomorrow, even though none of the seniors are going."
Her"I don't care."
Me: "Ok well can I still go out to get food since the bread is molded, rice is gone." I wanted to add "and all the other food is gone too because ur fat ugly daughter ate it all.
Her: "I dont' care, if you leave the house I'm kicking you out."

Me:... maybe I should leave and get kicked out.

This isn't the first time that she made me stay at home and ruin my social life. She's such a controlling bullheaded b*tch... She isn't letting me get a licence because she thinks that she has to pay more insurance...? I'm sick of living with her and her XHUSBAND who also b*tches everyday. Should I just move out and go live with my other relatives? I have college in the fall and I'm not sure I can put up with this over the summer.

I guess I deserve this since I haven't stood up for myself. I always put up with whatever they asked me to do. All my friends tells me that it's total BS.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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This is the same troll who went by the name CK something or other who posted how his parents died and his aunt and uncle wouldn't let him shower or use the toilet. He admitted to being a troll and then stopped using that ID...looks like he's at it again.
 
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Wyldfire said:
This is the same troll who went by the name CK something or other who posted how his parents died and his aunt and uncle wouldn't let him shower or use the toilet. He admitted to being a troll and then stopped using that ID...looks like he's at it again.
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Excuse me? Who the f*ck are YOU? I found this forum yesterday and I'm already getting accused of being a troll. WTF is your problem?
 
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Rose_Of_Sharyn said:
Excuse me? Who the f*ck are YOU? I found this forum yesterday and I'm already getting accused of being a troll. WTF is your problem?
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Yeah good call. You think there's only one person in the world who lives with controlling relatives? Stupid judgmental bltch. There's a troll in this thread, but it isn't Rose_Of_Sharyn.
 
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Rose_Of_Sharyn said:
Both my parents are dead. I have other relatives back home (Brazil), I had to stay with the AMERICAN side so I can finish highschool here and get into college. I've stayed out of trouble, did everything that was asked by my uncle and aunt.
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I take it you're Brazilian, which is pretty cool. Could you not get into college here if you didn't live in America with these people? Aren't they doing you a huge favor, then, one that would be difficult to repay?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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seanchai said:
I take it you're Brazilian, which is pretty cool. Could you not get into college here if you didn't live in America with these people? Aren't they doing you a huge favor, then, one that would be difficult to repay?
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Well I guess it would be harder for me if I went to a public school in Brazil. Still I don't really find it neccessary for them to treat me like sh*t, I don't expect special treatment at all. I think they'll treat a homeless guy better than me. O well I guess I'll suck it up for 3 more months and never see them again when I go to college. Thanks for the help.
 
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Rose_Of_Sharyn said:
Well I guess it would be harder for me if I went to a public school in Brazil. Still I don't really find it neccessary for them to treat me like sh*t, I don't expect special treatment at all. I think they'll treat a homeless guy better than me. O well I guess I'll suck it up for 3 more months and never see them again when I go to college. Thanks for the help.
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It does sound like it sucks, but if you only have three more months it's not so bad. Just do a lot of pushups in your room or something :yawn:
 
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