Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I have an HB6 girl on my team now and she f's like a champ with the body of a stripper...Alphamale1821 said:lmao thats what i'm saying. Any chick is lucky to go out with me but certainly if she is a hb6 she better have a damn good body and personality.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She referred to the plan in a doubtful manner... "are we still going?" there was no indicator that plans had changed so she should have asked "what time you picking me up?" BUt in her mind she was hopping that plans had changed cause she wanted to change them and hence the subtle hint...nando said:
yo man but my friends some times tell me the same thing if we are doing something or we have planned something, they ask me the same thing like "we still going to ___?". I know they want to go because if they didn't they would just say I can't make it. That is why I find what she said confusing.DonGorgon said: