"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pissed off... rite now... getting flaked on as we speak

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonGorgon

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nando said:
Can you explain it more? I don't get it, why would she remind him of the plan if she didn't wanna go, she could have just fabricated a bs story to ditch him.
She referred to the plan in a doubtful manner... "are we still going?" there was no indicator that plans had changed so she should have asked "what time you picking me up?" BUt in her mind she was hopping that plans had changed cause she wanted to change them and hence the subtle hint...
 

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DonGorgon said:
She referred to the plan in a doubtful manner... "are we still going?" there was no indicator that plans had changed so she should have asked "what time you picking me up?" BUt in her mind she was hopping that plans had changed cause she wanted to change them and hence the subtle hint...
yo man but my friends some times tell me the same thing if we are doing something or we have planned something, they ask me the same thing like "we still going to ___?". I know they want to go because if they didn't they would just say I can't make it. That is why I find what she said confusing.
 

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She isnt an HB6, she is a 6. HB means Hot Babe, and a 6 isnt a babe in my book. HB doesnt start till 8. :up:

And I love the part about "are we still gonna hang out". Best bet in that case, text her back "actually I was going to get a hold of you, I had some stuff come up but I will get in touch with you in a few days and we can". Beat her at her own game, and still keep her IL up.
 
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