"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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pissed off right now with how much looks dont matter

Chromeo

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two of my former bang maids, the ones I had a little oneitis for, are now banging fat hairy pasty 30 yr olds, no offense to you older guys, but these dudes are out of shape and I would not consider very good looking. One dude just looks like any regular outa shape balding 30 yr old, the other guy looks like guy fieri except with long brown hair, accesoried out mystery style. Im 22 yr old in decent shape, people think I look like joseph gordon leavit.

both these girls still talk to me, the one with the regular dude I ignore, she still wants to be friends... The one with guy fieri I was hoping to try and get back in with. She invites me out, I tell her im rude, (she liked for me to be her rude boy rihanna style) she says shes rude to, tells me to meet her at so and so bar. I do its about 130, its a 3 am bar, so I have some fun with her and her friends I know, were having a good time, shes gettin close to me, although not being really flirty and 3 am roles around and guy fieri shows up. Doesnt say a freakin word to anyone, stands at the bar gets a drink, and shes all over him and of course they leave together. She says see ya, were leaving. I just said oh, you and your guy, I mean boyfriend, she says hes not her boyfriend, and I just laughed. Hopin I didnt come off as jealous but whatever.

anyway just fvcking pissed off right now. Good for them, but just goes to show ya looks dont fvckin matter at all. They help but they are so low on a girls list, all they care about is if you make their little pvssy wet. Fvckin a
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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I hope this doesnt start into another one of those "looks dont matter" argument threads...i feel like theres been so many lately
 

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Chromeo said:
two of my former bang maids, the ones I had a little oneitis for, are now banging fat hairy pasty 30 yr olds, no offense to you older guys, but these dudes are out of shape and I would not consider very good looking. One dude just looks like any regular outa shape balding 30 yr old, the other guy looks like guy fieri except with long brown hair, accesoried out mystery style. Im 22 yr old in decent shape, people think I look like joseph gordon leavit.

both these girls still talk to me, the one with the regular dude I ignore, she still wants to be friends... The one with guy fieri I was hoping to try and get back in with. She invites me out, I tell her im rude, (she liked for me to be her rude boy rihanna style) she says shes rude to, tells me to meet her at so and so bar. I do its about 130, its a 3 am bar, so I have some fun with her and her friends I know, were having a good time, shes gettin close to me, although not being really flirty and 3 am roles around and guy fieri shows up. Doesnt say a freakin word to anyone, stands at the bar gets a drink, and shes all over him and of course they leave together. She says see ya, were leaving. I just said oh, you and your guy, I mean boyfriend, she says hes not her boyfriend, and I just laughed. Hopin I didnt come off as jealous but whatever.

anyway just fvcking pissed off right now. Good for them, but just goes to show ya looks dont fvckin matter at all. They help but they are so low on a girls list, all they care about is if you make their little pvssy wet. Fvckin a
Why are you angry that looks don't matter that much? Is it because now you will have to man-up instead of relying on looks as your crutch?
 

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i like how you post a pic of the celebrity "you look like" and not yourself

and you sound like a girl. "i am like so much more prettier than her why does he pay attention to her"
 

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Clearly the solution here is to smash your face into a sharp rock repeatedly until you are uglier than them. Then you will be swimming in pvssy, I guarantee it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Mad Ghost said:
Falconslax89 is Chromeo, Jospeh Gordon Leavit, much?
um sorry, but i am not chromeo. i do kind of look like him but havent ever had anyone tell me that. ive had everything from heath ledger to the kid who plays mclovin to the jonas brothers to andy samberg to skinny seth rogan but never jospeph gordan leavit. good lookin guy though...ill take it.
 

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Ask them what they're doing. Get some insight.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just a Shot Away

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Captain said:
Fvck not this again. You get guys saying that they KNOW looks don't matter and have proof, and others saying the opposite.
Not to stir up the hornet's nest here, but only one group has facts and logic, published scientific journals, and scientific polling on their side...while the other side is left with nothing but drunken isolated one-sided eyewitness accounts at college parties, heresay, and TMZ-derived soundbites. All of this however is irrelevant, since this site is devoted to becoming better at getting as much bush as humanly possible and of course there's no way that one can do this while believing that they cannot get certain girls based on their facial symmetry.
 

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Chromeo said:
two of my former bang maids, the ones I had a little oneitis for
Girls will tend to go for ordinary looking guys who they are attracted to, as opposed to good looking "AFC" guys.

I'm not saying that you are an AFC, but you mentioned a little oneitis? Chances are, to them it was a lot bigger than that, and you completely turned them off with it.

Having said that though, looks do matter, as part of your overall game. All over things being equal (which they never are), girls will go for the most good looking guy.

Just my 2 cents.
 

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Just a Shot Away said:
Not to stir up the hornet's nest here, but only one group has facts and logic, published scientific journals, and scientific polling on their side...while the other side is left with nothing but drunken isolated one-sided eyewitness accounts at college parties, heresay, and TMZ-derived soundbites. All of this however is irrelevant, since this site is devoted to becoming better at getting as much bush as humanly possible and of course there's no way that one can do this while believing that they cannot get certain girls based on their facial symmetry.
keep in mind the scientific testing never includes "game"
 

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Haha ya sorry didn't want to start one another importance of looks thread either, just venting. No falcon isn't me.

I mean I basically understand their appeal to them, these guys are just fun loving service industry workers who just make enough money to live and have some fun.

I'm a stressed out struggling college grad who's tryin to figure out his direction. But once I figure something out here in the next couple months I'll be all good. These girls have no future goals, their just looking for immediate gratification and hope for the best, whatever happens happens.
 

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Chromeo said:
Haha ya sorry didn't want to start one another importance of looks thread either, just venting. No falcon isn't me.

I mean I basically understand their appeal to them, these guys are just fun loving service industry workers who just make enough money to live and have some fun.

I'm a stressed out struggling college grad who's tryin to figure out his direction. But once I figure something out here in the next couple months I'll be all good. These girls have no future goals, their just looking for immediate gratification and hope for the best, whatever happens happens.
so chromeo...do we look indeed look alike?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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