"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Pissed girl off big time

heater528

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I mentioned before i made a big mistake about 2 weeks ago, hooked up with a chick unprotected. Well today i went to my doc and had a full battery of blood work run and a physical. The girl called me and asked what i was up to and informed her that i just got back from the doc and for what. She then says ohhh well i dont have any diseases in a pissed off fashion... i said well i was just being safe, so she went off asking why i thought she was a skank, and i could have just talked to her afterwards and she would have told me she was clean. So i pretty much said look you let me have sex without a condom so that made me think how many other guys you did the same with... so she started yelping who was i to judge her and that im just as guilty as she was. well needless to say she was right and i f'ed up....but needless to say i will never... never... in my lifetime, unless im married have unprotected sex again, this has been the most stressful 2 weeks in my life !
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Chemistry

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Why did you tell her this?

LOL... why would you even tell anyone that you went to get yourself tested out after f*ckin with a girl unprotected...

I mean, the whole testin is just somethin you do to make sure your in the clear after doin somethin stupid and we've all done it... you don't broadcast it besides your closest friends circles generally if they're on that same thing your on...
 

heater528

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lol like i said this whole unprotected experience is something new to me. My friends didnt even know i was sort of dropping the hint to this girl that i was getting tested so if she was worried she wouldnt be.
 

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Originally posted by heater528
lol like i said this whole unprotected experience is something new to me. My friends didnt even know i was sort of dropping the hint to this girl that i was getting tested so if she was worried she wouldnt be.

the scary thing is that she WASNT freaking out about letting some dude rawdog her.

Chances are its a regular thing for her if shes not flippin about it.

Hopefully your tests come clean and this skeezer didnt spread a disease.
 

heater528

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well she said she wasnt freaked out about it because of my job. I had to get tested up and down before i got hired. And i frequently get tested simply because i end up having to restrain people that may have diseases. She knew this because her cousin does the same thing i do. Also she just got out of a 4 year ltr which she was engaged.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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