"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pissed girl off big time

heater528

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I mentioned before i made a big mistake about 2 weeks ago, hooked up with a chick unprotected. Well today i went to my doc and had a full battery of blood work run and a physical. The girl called me and asked what i was up to and informed her that i just got back from the doc and for what. She then says ohhh well i dont have any diseases in a pissed off fashion... i said well i was just being safe, so she went off asking why i thought she was a skank, and i could have just talked to her afterwards and she would have told me she was clean. So i pretty much said look you let me have sex without a condom so that made me think how many other guys you did the same with... so she started yelping who was i to judge her and that im just as guilty as she was. well needless to say she was right and i f'ed up....but needless to say i will never... never... in my lifetime, unless im married have unprotected sex again, this has been the most stressful 2 weeks in my life !
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why did you tell her this?

LOL... why would you even tell anyone that you went to get yourself tested out after f*ckin with a girl unprotected...

I mean, the whole testin is just somethin you do to make sure your in the clear after doin somethin stupid and we've all done it... you don't broadcast it besides your closest friends circles generally if they're on that same thing your on...
 

heater528

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lol like i said this whole unprotected experience is something new to me. My friends didnt even know i was sort of dropping the hint to this girl that i was getting tested so if she was worried she wouldnt be.
 

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Originally posted by heater528
lol like i said this whole unprotected experience is something new to me. My friends didnt even know i was sort of dropping the hint to this girl that i was getting tested so if she was worried she wouldnt be.

the scary thing is that she WASNT freaking out about letting some dude rawdog her.

Chances are its a regular thing for her if shes not flippin about it.

Hopefully your tests come clean and this skeezer didnt spread a disease.
 

heater528

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well she said she wasnt freaked out about it because of my job. I had to get tested up and down before i got hired. And i frequently get tested simply because i end up having to restrain people that may have diseases. She knew this because her cousin does the same thing i do. Also she just got out of a 4 year ltr which she was engaged.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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