"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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piss drunk but got her number

jayhu12

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do I call her? we both were pretty wasted I was to the point where I couldnt walk properly and was always shouting haha. I didnt really talk to her when I was sober, but when the liquid courage hit it was on hehe.

I just dunno if a drunken night is taken seriously or its just a not talking to you every again kinda thing. Another thing is the way i acted that night it didnt reflect how I act normally lol.

imput plz!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Miss

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No call unless you want a very awkward conversation followed by a no.
 

onyx

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hahah i got so many numbers when i've been so drunk and i've blackout. Normally if i cant remember them i ask my mates about them, if they say they were hot i might said a txt, otherwise i'll drop it...depends.
 

Sir Juanalot

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I have had a friend walk up to me and ask "This girl i'm with, what does she look like. I can't see!" haha.
 
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