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Pimple on Pen1s shaft?

pipe007

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Hey guys Just a little concern I have
has anyone else here grow pimples around the penis shaft?

now, I have ALWAYS in my life used condom when having sex, and Ive only had sex with regular partners.

so in the past months.. every now and then I might grow what appears to be a pimple cyst kinda thing... at some point it grows to the point where it accumulates white matter on the tip, and i can squeeze it, and pus comes out, after I do this, the thing heals within 2 days, and its gone.

it doesnt itch, it is not painful when I pee, it doesnt feel uncomfortable, but when its at its peak, when the white pus is cumulating in the tip of it, it kinda hurts when i touch it. like its sensitive.

talked to my dad about it, and he told me it could be due to touching yourself with dirty hands...

anybody else experiences this? I currently have one.. should I be concerned?

I know that herpes sores usually become like blisters and they itch and are painful.. so this doesn't seem like it..... do Herpes sores get white matter or puss on them when they are squeezed?

thanks a lot guys
 

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pipe007 said:
Hey guys Just a little concern I have
has anyone else here grow pimples around the penis shaft?

now, I have ALWAYS in my life used condom when having sex, and Ive only had sex with regular partners.

so in the past months.. every now and then I might grow what appears to be a pimple cyst kinda thing... at some point it grows to the point where it accumulates white matter on the tip, and i can squeeze it, and pus comes out, after I do this, the thing heals within 2 days, and its gone.

it doesnt itch, it is not painful when I pee, it doesnt feel uncomfortable, but when its at its peak, when the white pus is cumulating in the tip of it, it kinda hurts when i touch it. like its sensitive.

talked to my dad about it, and he told me it could be due to touching yourself with dirty hands...

anybody else experiences this? I currently have one.. should I be concerned?

I know that herpes sores usually become like blisters and they itch and are painful.. so this doesn't seem like it..... do Herpes sores get white matter or puss on them when they are squeezed?

thanks a lot guys
these are common... probably lots on the pubeic hair folicules BUT dont take any advice online as fact AND for your own peace of mind/confirmation go to a doctor to get it confirmed
 

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Does it only happen on your penis or also on other parts of your body?

I have gotten things that look like pimples that have white tips on my arms, legs and chest. For me though, they are actually insect/spider bites. Damn bugs get me when I'm sleeping.

It could be the same for you.
 

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I've gotten those before. Go down to the free clinic and get your bore punched, helluva experience.
 

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yea they seem to be pimples.
they are just imflamations of the sebaceous glands on the shaft of the penis, did my research... It seems to be quite normal, and people get it from now and then...

ill get it checked with my doc anyway
 

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No, he's describing molluscum contagiosum. His sores accumulate a white head and pop. "Molluscum" means pearl.

You can read a lot of things that will scare you and make you feel like a leper. Don't. Just pop the sores like you are doing. The white stuff is contagious, even to other areas of your own body, but not as horribly as you will read. Razors and shaving are however very bad and spread the sores easily.

Do NOT tell women. They will treat you like a leper. It would be like a girl telling you just before sex that there is a 82% chance that she carries HPV. It's true, but it kills the mood. Women pretty much all have HPV, so I don't see any point in telling them that you have molluscum, which is just about as common, at least in regard to carrying the virus. It's a pox virus that is related to chicken pox, and something that most of us carry in our blood.

There is no treatment other than popping the sores or having a doc cut them off with a curette. Most doctors are idiots about dermatology and will mis-diagnose you. Go to a specialist doc or PA if you want them to curette sores. They will want to write you a prescription for Aldera. Do not accept it. Aldera is horrible sh!t that will fvck you up 100x worse than having molluscum. It's like treating poison ivy with chemo.
 

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hey Bible Belt
they don't just pop by themselves unless, I reach over and squeeze them, then the puss comes out as it pops, but it wont pop by itself.

I better get these checked by a doc... better safe than sorry
 

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pipe007 said:
hey Bible Belt
they don't just pop by themselves unless, I reach over and squeeze them, then the puss comes out as it pops, but it wont pop by itself.

I better get these checked by a doc... better safe than sorry
Where abouts are they on your ****?

What BB mentioned is a virus I think but what you have might not be a virus, I'm going to guess it might just be spots or infected sweat glands, do they tend to reappear in the same place/pores? Because obviously squeezing them, gets rid of the ugly whitehead but bacteria is likely to reinfect them again. Really there's nothing you can do other than keep it clean, nothing to worry about though. It's just annoying they don't look too sexy. I've only ever had little spots like that up on the bikini line when I tried shaving, like a razor rash, my skin really doesn't like shaving so I always wax that region instead and it's fine. Do you get them where you shave? (if you shave) if so then stop shaving, either wax or trim, or epilate if you have balls of steel.

Go to the doc and report back, my money is on nothing serious or contagious.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
No, he's describing molluscum contagiosum. His sores accumulate a white head and pop. "Molluscum" means pearl.

You can read a lot of things that will scare you and make you feel like a leper. Don't. Just pop the sores like you are doing. The white stuff is contagious, even to other areas of your own body, but not as horribly as you will read. Razors and shaving are however very bad and spread the sores easily.

Do NOT tell women. They will treat you like a leper. It would be like a girl telling you just before sex that there is a 82% chance that she carries HPV. It's true, but it kills the mood. Women pretty much all have HPV, so I don't see any point in telling them that you have molluscum, which is just about as common, at least in regard to carrying the virus. It's a pox virus that is related to chicken pox, and something that most of us carry in our blood.

There is no treatment other than popping the sores or having a doc cut them off with a curette. Most doctors are idiots about dermatology and will mis-diagnose you. Go to a specialist doc or PA if you want them to curette sores. They will want to write you a prescription for Aldera. Do not accept it. Aldera is horrible sh!t that will fvck you up 100x worse than having molluscum. It's like treating poison ivy with chemo.

yep, had that ****, doc said could be from something like a dirty towel.

i would NOT pop them, they go away within a few weeks
 

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Mine got checked in on the military draft and they single out people with STDs and stuff like that on the penis. I had those pimples as well and they didn't have a problem with it, so i guess you're gonna survive.
 

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Sounds to me like simple penis spots. These can be common if you do penis exercises like jelqing. Simple, harmless and go away on their own. Ofcourse if you keep getting them on a regular basis, it could be something more serious.
 

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I support getting expert help, but fwiw I got a different incorrect diagnosis from three different general practice docs before I went to a dermatology office. See a specialist.
 

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and you have medical degree Falcon?
this post was made last year I believe, my results came negative, and never again had pimple grow again...

I learned to clean my hands throughly before i touch down there.
so keep your "expertize" to yourself
 
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