"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pimpin's advice for 9/15

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Some of you are with a girlfriend or even married, or just seeing someone. You probably pass up opportunities every day to approach HBs because you are complacent. You have someone now and you don't need to try.

WRONG!

PIMPIN'S RULE #1: ALWAYS STAY 10 UP ON THEM

"What do you mean '10 up', Pimpin'?"

Relationships don't last forever. You get fat, she cheats on you and meanwhile you have passed up hundreds of opportunities. How are you going to feel then? This is why you keep a 10 conquest "buffer" and then you will never feel like you missed. This goes for anyone in a monogamous relationship.

GL bros. Discuss.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I would definitely not recommend that for Long Term Relationships, especially not marriage. I think if you did that while married your marriage would fall apart pretty damn fast.
 

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Originally posted by triple_ultima
I would definitely not recommend that for Long Term Relationships, especially not marriage. I think if you did that while married your marriage would fall apart pretty damn fast.
hes not sayin to **** all the women u feel like ****in, hes talkin about keepin them all on the back burner JUST IN CASE. cause no matter how perfect you are, things change, **** i would not wanna be single for the rest of my life IF my wife died.
DO U UNDERSTAND?


PLZ PUT AWAY UR NEGATIVE THOUGHTS !:woo:
 

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thats definately something a 35 year old would say.
what he really means is to just keep your socail proof high for the rest of your life, that if anything went wrong with the LTR, u can bounce back easy.
 

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pimpin' is totally right.
If you guys don't know that MOST women have lots of men waiting "on reserve" (yes even YOUR GIRLFRIEND probably does this), then you are incredibly naive.
just like us, women have two kinds of male friends -- platonic friends, with whom they have absolutely no sexual interest, and with whom everything is totally clear; and less-than-platonic friends (e.g. lingering ex-boyfriends)...there are easy ways to tell the difference...

so why shouldn't you also have female friends of the same sort?
besides, i think that a little ambiguity and sexual tension makes friendships more interesting -- in fact i would say that i have this kind of relationship with nearly all of my female friends. even if you don't do anything with them, it's just more fun for everybody...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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This is stupid advice. Why would anyone enter a relationship if they didn't have any hope of it lasting? Approaching women while you're in a serious relationship is going to cause damage.

If the relationship doesn't last, you can pick up where you left off.

However, if you're wanting to keep your social skills up, approach men and women, old and young, and make conversation.
 

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LOL


:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:



GET REAL!

seriously....
 

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Let me guess, she cheeted on you and now your feeling some regrets.....
That's what you get when you don't thake care of your biatch. She goes to another PiMp
 

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Why would anyone enter a relationship if they didn't have any hope of it lasting?
Because we don't want to be alone?

Only a precious few of today's couples will stand the test of time. You are a fool if you enter a relationship with the belief that it will last forever. Enjoy it while you can, because it WILL end.
 

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Only a precious few of today's couples will stand the test of time. You are a fool if you enter a relationship with the belief that it will last forever. Enjoy it while you can, because it WILL end.
Note: I used the word HOPE. No LTR is guaranteed to last, but there's nothing wrong with hoping that it will work.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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frivolousz21

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nly a precious few of today's couples will stand the test of time. You are a fool if you enter a relationship with the belief that it will last forever. Enjoy it while you can, because it WILL end.


again someone who got burned.

so what it may end?

you also might get ran over by a 18 wheeler.

which is more painful? are u going to stop driving now?
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
again someone who got burned.

so what it may end?

you also might get ran over by a 18 wheeler.

which is more painful? are u going to stop driving now?
I think my frame of mind and perspective are much better now that I EXPECT my relationships to end instead of having the frame of mind that it will last forever.

Yes, I was burned, and it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me. I've turned my life around since then and now have my pick of women to date, instead of clingy desperately to my ex like I used to.

I wasn't saying to not have the relationship, what I meant was it should always be in the back of your mind that IT WILL END.

So even though I'm only seeing one girl now, I still want to work on improving myself and my "game" for that time in the future when I'm actively seeking to meet new women.
 

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So even though I'm only seeing one girl now, I still want to work on improving myself and my "game" for that time in the future when I'm actively seeking to meet new women.
well of course we know it can end...but thats goes with risk...your right to always know it can end in many ways.

i dont think you should be hitting on women if ur commited to someone(like the origional poster said)..you can keep up on ur game..by just being social.
 
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Originally posted by spider_007
Let me guess, she cheeted on you and now your feeling some regrets.....
That's what you get when you don't thake care of your biatch. She goes to another PiMp
You are missing the point: I just used her cheating as an example. It could be YOU cheating on her, it could be that you can't stand the sight of each other...who knows? The point is: don't pass up on opportunities while in a relationship or you'll be sorry later.

If this advice doesn't mesh with the "Mr. Nice Guys", that's ok. It wasn't meant for you. Go put on your Polo shirt, buy your girlfriend some flowers, write a poem, and wait until I am done banging her.......lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I agree with not passing oppurtunities.

If it is in your nature to cheat, then go for it. If it's not in your nature to cheat, then don't cheat. Simple as that. However don't throw that number away either. The least you can do is keep in touch and maintain a link. Put her in the friendzone, and then if the time comes that you need to rebound, take her out of that friendzone. There's nothing wrong with having back-ups, girls have plenty of them, and the friendzone is really easy to leave if you're the one who put her there intentionally.
 

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Originally posted by Desdinova
This is stupid advice. Why would anyone enter a relationship if they didn't have any hope of it lasting? Approaching women while you're in a serious relationship is going to cause damage.

If the relationship doesn't last, you can pick up where you left off.

However, if you're wanting to keep your social skills up, approach men and women, old and young, and make conversation.
lol, because out of all of the relationships you think is "the one" only ONE will be, and someone people don't even get that one.
 
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