Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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pimpin my ride: suggestions

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Ok, so I've invested about $800 in my sound system thus far. I have Pioneer subs, Almani 900watt amp, custom ported box, adn an Alpine head unit.

pics here

I drive a 1996 Jetta. I'm trying to trick the car out in the interior, and eventually move on to shaved door handles and engine stuff.

I need in-dash DVD next.... basic requirements are DVD movies, CDs, video game hookups, and not crappy controls.

I was looking at a Panasonic one (VD7500U) comes with TV tuner, remote, surround sound, awesome resolution. Should I let it be wired to where I cant watch movies when im driving? Or should I have it re-wired so I can watch it while driving? Good idea so my girlfriend can watch a movie or TV while I drive? It would be great to watch NFL while my dad's driving or something.

Any thoughts, ideas, suggestions? Additional mods?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Honestly man, save car modding for after college when you got a real job if it's your passion. Once you hit college, no one will give a sh*t if you even have a car. Plus in Southern California, you're not going to get too many looks driving a modded Jetta, unless it's pimped with 20,000+ dollars into it.

The sound system was a cool idea. If you have to drive, bump some tunes while doing it. But IMO, anything else is just blowing your money on something that's not going to significantly enhance anything but your ego.
 

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Unless your really rich. Screw that.

Waste your money on alcohol. Not car parts.
 

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woah thats alot of miles on the car.
personally i would'nt even touch it in terms of serious mods without making sure the engine could even handle it.
is it s 5-6 speed?
there are still alot of things to make the car fast, if you have the
money. may not be the fastest thing on wheels but
with a little cash i'd bet that lil Jetta could get into the
14's-which is decent. you can have a pretty "quick" car or
one that blows the doors off it's hinges of the car next to you
during traffic..it's really up to you :D
 

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Personally if i had cash id hook up some kind of computer system with a screen and a harddrive so i can lsiten to mp3's.

I dont need to watch movies or play games in my ride but i do hate carrying around a case of cd's that always get scratched or lost or broken so having something computerized in my ride would be straight pimp.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Julian
Personally if i had cash id hook up some kind of computer system with a screen and a harddrive so i can lsiten to mp3's.

I dont need to watch movies or play games in my ride but i do hate carrying around a case of cd's that always get scratched or lost or broken so having something computerized in my ride would be straight pimp.
Why not an iPod plug-in or a cd player that can play MP3 CDs?
 
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