"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PIMP Julien Physical touch.

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He was saying that you should do these types of touches with a woman. I know he is talking in club enviorment obviously he also said in the street but would you do any of these in street? Just random

Neck bite, waltz dance, spin handshake, spin hug, hand clasp.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are you serious? Neck bite, waltz dance on the street??? I'm not even sure exactly what a 'spin' handshake and hug are, I'm guessing you are twirlling the girl around somehow... No.... maybe in a club, but I would NEVER do anythng like that even in a club. It sounds ridiculas.

You meet a woman out and about in the day the only thing you should be doing is shaking her hand, hand clasp.. okay, I guess this is okay as well... Asking her out, or getting her number is really about all you should be doing... no touching, unless you know her and hugging is acceptable in your social circle.
 
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How does this guy get away with acting outrageous and picking up chicks all the time though? He acts very over the top in his interactions at times
 

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How does this guy get away with acting outrageous and picking up chicks all the time though? He acts very over the top in his interactions at times
Because he's a legend.

PIMP is about night game mostly, but yes he does briefly speak of day game but I don't recall him saying anything about these physical touches durning day game.

The part in PIMP "how I pick up an Eastern European model....in the day" is classic and defines core confidence. He has footage of that interaction and in my opinion what he was creating was....FLOW and VIBE. He was actually talking to another group when the model passed and he got up and approached her and used SOCIAL PROOF to his advantage. A lot of men are too cool for school and will only talk to a "hot babe" whereas talking to everyone socially WARMS YOU UP and gives you a VIBE and keeps you in STATE.

Justins approach is this : how can I add fun to this situation? Always. if you are adding fun you are hitting her emotions. If you talk to her about Chinese foreign policy you are speaking to the logical side of her brain. Women will mostly only bang you if their emotions are engaged.

...but.....(and this is something most people can't grasp) Julien also approaches the situation like this: I'm doing this for me. I'm gaming myself. I'm doing this for my fun. if she likes it that's just an added bonus.

His advice is also: the only way to get good at game, is to practice game. Just like swimming, I can watch all of the DVD's and read all of the books and listen to people talkk about swimming. But unless I get in the water......consistently.....

So in a way, I say "I need women. I need them to become good at game. but there are billiones of them on the planet. Every interaction is an opportunity to practice game"

what you stated "how does he get away with what he says" comes from a politically correct mindset afraid to offend. there is offense giving and offence taking...

there are some people who are always going to be offended. fvck them. Do your thing. practice your skill, practice your game...

Julien engages their emotions....he plays with some and shocks some..but he's rock solid in his masculine frame.

every woman is expreience for the next one...

check this video out, it's one of his best in my opinion. His inner game is so solid.....because he's worked on it.

 
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Because he's a legend.

PIMP is about night game mostly, but yes he does briefly speak of day game but I don't recall him saying anything about these physical touches durning day game.

The part in PIMP "how I pick up an Eastern European model....in the day" is classic and defines core confidence. He has footage of that interaction and in my opinion what he was creating was....FLOW and VIBE. He was actually talking to another group when the model passed and he got up and approached her and used SOCIAL PROOF to his advantage. A lot of men are too cool for school and will only talk to a "hot babe" whereas talking to everyone socially WARMS YOU UP and gives you a VIBE and keeps you in STATE.

Justins approach is this : how can I add fun to this situation? Always. if you are adding fun you are hitting her emotions. If you talk to her about Chinese foreign policy you are speaking to the logical side of her brain. Women will mostly only bang you if their emotions are engaged.

...but.....(and this is something most people can't grasp) Julien also approaches the situation like this: I'm doing this for me. I'm gaming myself. I'm doing this for my fun. if she likes it that's just an added bonus.

His advice is also: the only way to get good at game, is to practice game. Just like swimming, I can watch all of the DVD's and read all of the books and listen to people talkk about swimming. But unless I get in the water......consistently.....

So in a way, I say "I need women. I need them to become good at game. but there are billiones of them on the planet. Every interaction is an opportunity to practice game"

what you stated "how does he get away with what he says" comes from a politically correct mindset afraid to offend. there is offense giving and offence taking...

there are some people who are always going to be offended. fvck them. Do your thing. practice your skill, practice your game...

Julien engages their emotions....he plays with some and shocks some..but he's rock solid in his masculine frame.

every woman is expreience for the next one...

check this video out, it's one of his best in my opinion. His inner game is so solid.....because he's worked on it.

Are you sure you don't work for RSD Marketing Department?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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All that just seems silly. I'm sure it works, but at 49 I'd look like a complete @ss doing stuff like this... My guess is young guys can get away with it. And yea.... in the right environment under the right circumstances this stuff might work, but it's really college party behavior stuff.
 
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