"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Piercings?

amnbyrd

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Just got both my ears pierced-the earrings are kind of a metalhead style thing-they're 14 gauge(not that big) and look like the letter "C" with a spike on each end.
ANyone here have input on how girls would react to this? For those who have they're ears pierced what kinda reactions do you get from ppl? I know it doesnt matter, just curious. The town Im in is a big christian town too btw.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Once you become use to wearing earrings (more than one in each ear is over-doing it), you can't go anywhere without them trust me. They just give you that badboy look that helps you stand out and a lot of women I know are drawn to the look (they call it sexy).

I've had mine for two years and now wonder why I waited so long.

Some guys here and even myself called it gay, but when I noticed the increased attention that came along with wearing them, my point of view changed quickly.
 

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Some girls like ear-rings on guys others don't. Either way you should only get your ears peircec because, you want to.
 

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I wouldnt call you gay, but it without a doubt, more feminine than masculine. Whatever youre shooting for i guess...
 
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