"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pictures from last night's fashion show...

diablo

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Interesting show - my first with my new camera. I made the mistake of using the portrait lens at first, only realizing it after the first model had come out. I snapped a few, then rushed to replace it with the short telephoto lens... They didn't come out like I'd hoped - then again, it's a fashion show and not a portraiture session... the harsh red lights spotlights above stage were a headache, and the flash didn't recharge in time half of the time, eventually leading me to take it off and use the pop-up - this is why it's good to bring fresh batteries... doh...

I doubt it, but it's possible some of you may recognize Heidi from my 'past conquests' threads. She's got the cowboy boots on, along with the white dress/shirt that cinches at the waist. She's the one who let me on to the show, from there I got in touch with the promotions director of the radio station putting it on, which got me onto the VIP list, which got me free drinks all night.

Anyway, here goes.

http://www.jbspencer.com/fashionableaffair
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Julian

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Cool pics.

What would you recommend as far as digital camcorders go? I have like 350 to spend.
 
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