"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was going though my old yahoo account, deleting some crap, and I came across some pics of me and some other people I know. and I don't think I ever posted a pic of myself here.. so here goes

First, these are OLD pics.. about 2 years now, but I don't look much different.. i cut the hair and I'm not as defined but I still can walk around without mys hirt.. this was in the peak of my "get in shape or die tryin" mode

I'm in the middle, my two (old) best friends are on the left and right of me, we don't talk anymore. this is a sigma party they drug me to, which ended up not being that bad



http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/ur_hacked03/detail?.dir=1b3a&.dnm=8a23.jpg&.src=ph


Here is "kat", my old oneisits who I ran into earlier today...

the Columbian girl on the right. Also make note, I met her by ****ing the white girl on the left, who has made a resurgence since then and is actually pretty damn cute now... she's doable in that pic but that's about it. I saw her at a club about 4 months ago and had to do a double take.


http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/ur_hacked03/detail?.dir=8c12&.dnm=c73f.jpg&.src=ph


Here is my last REAL girl friend, the girl who lived with me. I call her "boop" becuase her eyes

http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/ur_hacked03/detail?.dir=5c1b&.dnm=98c3.jpg&.src=ph

why is she half naked you ask? because we are freaky like that.. seriously, she was a half ass model, but is too short, but as you can see, you couldn't design a better body... really I think the photo guy just wanted to fvck her and filled her head with some stuff, but she half ass tried it. when and she would eat more junk food than anyone I ever seen. the only person I know I could give 100 dollars to, she comes home from the grocery store with 100 dollars worth of "snacks" and didn't know what a gym looked like. her older sister is a workout instructor and puts her to shame.

yahoo is making me delete these soon so look now.. as I have more recent photos around the house and just so happened to stumble on these
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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backbreaker said:
You call your last girlfriend "boop"?

I would call her "DAYUM!"

You're pretty built, did you gain or lose weight, or were you just gifted? You don't look like someone who sold a computer company at all. Not saying stereotypes or anything, but you're very in shape.
 

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~attrACTION~ said:
You call your last girlfriend "boop"?

I would call her "DAYUM!"

You're pretty built, did you gain or lose weight, or were you just gifted? You don't look like someone who sold a computer company at all. Not saying stereotypes or anything, but you're very in shape.
i get that alot.


that's not a good pic of her eyes.. she has the biggest eyes you've ever seen, so I call her 'baby boop' like the old cartoon character. She's more cute than hot to me.. you have to know her. she's real silly sometimes to a detriment


I was actually 135 in high school, when I started my company got up to 225, and trimmed it down. I'm about 185 in that pic, I'm about 171 now, my chest isn't as big, and my arms aren't as BIG but have more definition. it's not that hard... just be consistent with it.. and I don't touch weights anymore, just hindu pushups and squats really
 
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BB, what's up with the gang sign? :) I'm a Nupe!
 

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BB, what's up with the gang sign? :) I'm a Nupe!

that's not a gang sign, it's a sigma sign... it was a sigma party
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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backbreaker said:
it's not that hard... just be consistent with it.. and I don't touch weights anymore, just hindu pushups and squats really
.... says a young black dude! :down: Man, some of us are typical, non-mesmorphic white dudes that have to work out like crazy to get guns like that!

Nice lookin' girls there.
 

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you live in little rock... that girl (the columbian) stays across the street from Wild River country.. directly across the street.

that party was in the conway skating rink


actually, I was pleasantly plump 7 months before that pic, and I Don't have the best metabolisms on earth. I have to work on it.. but I don' thve to kill myself everyday.. I get up, do about 200 pushups everyday, swim about a mile and i"m done

that's what I was trying to explain in the health fourm.. I'm not spending 5 hours a day when if you pace yourself you don't get burned out, and I will take my shirt off anywhere.. that's all it really come sdown to.. how good do you look naked
 

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Oh cool - that Columbian girl is pretty hot, but the white girl is cute too and i can tell the pic's not fully doing her justice.

My comment about your bod was just meant to suggest that I do believe there are differences in races, and one thing Ive noticed about a great many young black men, is that most all of you seem to gain/have muscle so easily.
 

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here is a better pick of both actually

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cf...&MyToken=f014d021-9c82-47e0-91a4-61f6fd15f243

that one pic REALLY doesn't do her justice.. no where near.. BTW that cute little (well not so little now) alaskian husky is actually yours truly.. that's Rico, the dog that hated me so much I gave him to her to "watch a couple of days".. which turned into a month, 2 months.... then one day I just said "i'm never going to get rico back am I? and she said no.. i we actually ended up swapping dogs

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=154402887

is the white girl.. again I saw her a couple months back at a club called on the rocks and she came up to me, and i wasn't sure it was her. I actually know the guy in the pic.. we used to make fun of him in church when we were little... he's what you call a "gansta nerd".... she is the definition of a sunshine girl.. we hit it off that night and she actually invited me to her house but god no.. she's not even that good in bed
 

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azanon said:
Oh cool - that Columbian girl is pretty hot, but the white girl is cute too and i can tell the pic's not fully doing her justice.

My comment about your bod was just meant to suggest that I do believe there are differences in races, and one thing Ive noticed about a great many young black men, is that most all of you seem to gain/have muscle so easily.

dude.... you can't possibly be 44 years old. you look younger than me! **** you and I need to get together.. we'd tear LR up
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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44! No that's LMS. I'm 35 and yeah I probably could pass for 28-30, but I've haven't (yet) found my age to be a stumbling block.
 

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backbreaker said:
dude.... you can't possibly be 44 years old. you look younger than me! **** you and I need to get together.. we'd tear LR up
Lets do it sometime :D Just pm me.
 

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fvck it

couple of pics I found on my laptop, since i'm doing anything else so I uploaded them

not that it matters but this is my mom:

http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/ur_hacked03/detail?.dir=/5488re2&.dnm=2cc4re2.jpg&.src=ph

the one in the white shirt. if you saw both our baby pictures you couldn't tell us apart

here is the love of my life.. BREEE!!! my 7 year old sister

http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/ur_hacked03/detail?.dir=/5488re2&.dnm=62b2re2.jpg&.src=ph

smart (ass) as a buttton. she already has her brothers sharp tounge

i wish I had a pic of the phyco girl that threw the glass at my head.. she puts ALL those women up top to shame looks wise
 

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backbreaker said:
fvck it

couple of pics I found on my laptop, since i'm doing anything else so I uploaded them

not that it matters but this is my mom:

http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/ur_hacked03/detail?.dir=/5488re2&.dnm=2cc4re2.jpg&.src=ph

the one in the white shirt. if you saw both our baby pictures you couldn't tell us apart

here is the love of my life.. BREEE!!! my 7 year old sister

http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/ur_hacked03/detail?.dir=/5488re2&.dnm=62b2re2.jpg&.src=ph

smart (ass) as a buttton. she already has her brothers sharp tounge

i wish I had a pic of the phyco girl that threw the glass at my head.. she puts ALL those women up top to shame looks wise
uhhhhhhhh.... coooooool.... :whistle:
 

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i wish I had a pic of the phyco girl that threw the glass at my head.. she puts ALL those women up top to shame looks wise
dayum! would be interesting to see hehe :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BB, what's up with the gang sign? :) I'm a Nupe!

Your a Nupe??? I JUST krossed last semester Nu Kappa Khapter. Like a week before finals... I know I don't post much on here, I usually come on this board for entertainment and sometimes pointers... I just had to let it be known that your not a alone nupe... Its a small world though.
 

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nah.. I didn't even go to college. my two best friends are however... I used to might as well be. When they were breakin new guys in I used to get dragged with them.. all the sigma's in their chapter made my house the "home base".. people I didn't even know, just showing up, blue sigma kool aid all in my frig.. I remember my little sister tried ot drink some and she said "this don't taste like hi c"...

When I was 21, a normal say, Wednesday night, along with my GF at the time.. party every night. There used to be at least 8-9 people every other night if not more there.. playing spades, video games, getting drunk.. it was fun but I grew out of it a little, plus I wasn't a sigma
 
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Your a Nupe??? I JUST krossed last semester Nu Kappa Khapter. Like a week before finals...
Mr Stab-A-Ho - your name sounds as if you are a Kappa but you fvcked up buddy - you are an Alpha!!!!!!! what is Phi Nu Pi???

BB, so you are not a sigma?
 

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nope.. i used to associate with sigmas but I never was actually one.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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