"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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chad2k5

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I know a lot of them. they'll only go with a guy if he dresses a certain way, acts a certain way, etc etc. And these woman are very attractive. it's like in your mind you're not good enough. so what do you guys think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tmpgstx

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That's called immaturity/superficial sterotyping Chad. It's superficial in this context .. think about it .. much like their looks. As they mature (if they ever do) .. won't be so superficial but more about goals/responsibility/intelligence/success.
 

mcqueen207

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... and who wants a shallow, superficial chick in the first place?

I have dated plenty of very attractive women. It's funny after you get to know who they really are... they aren't attractive anymore. Beautiful on the outside does NOT guarantee beautiful on the inside.
 

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Guess what Chad...these are the girls that end up either being single for the rest of their life, Get used and abused by these men they feel "fitting" to their criteria, or finally settle for some chump with ok looks that will cater to their every need.

Forget those girls, they are nothing but trouble. Besides, most of them are probably sooo self conscious about themselves that need only the best looking men to make themselves feel better.

Think about it, if they went for someone with average looks, they probably feel that they are just average girls then that have to settle for it. DO YOU KNOW ANY GIRLS THAT WANT TO FEEL AVERAGE???

Anyways, forget them. Like I said, they will just get used and abused and one day be knocking on your door sayin, i wish i chose you and sh*t. Thats when you say tough luck b*tch, and hang up on them or close the door!! lolololol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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