"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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chad2k5

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I know a lot of them. they'll only go with a guy if he dresses a certain way, acts a certain way, etc etc. And these woman are very attractive. it's like in your mind you're not good enough. so what do you guys think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That's called immaturity/superficial sterotyping Chad. It's superficial in this context .. think about it .. much like their looks. As they mature (if they ever do) .. won't be so superficial but more about goals/responsibility/intelligence/success.
 
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... and who wants a shallow, superficial chick in the first place?

I have dated plenty of very attractive women. It's funny after you get to know who they really are... they aren't attractive anymore. Beautiful on the outside does NOT guarantee beautiful on the inside.
 
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Guess what Chad...these are the girls that end up either being single for the rest of their life, Get used and abused by these men they feel "fitting" to their criteria, or finally settle for some chump with ok looks that will cater to their every need.

Forget those girls, they are nothing but trouble. Besides, most of them are probably sooo self conscious about themselves that need only the best looking men to make themselves feel better.

Think about it, if they went for someone with average looks, they probably feel that they are just average girls then that have to settle for it. DO YOU KNOW ANY GIRLS THAT WANT TO FEEL AVERAGE???

Anyways, forget them. Like I said, they will just get used and abused and one day be knocking on your door sayin, i wish i chose you and sh*t. Thats when you say tough luck b*tch, and hang up on them or close the door!! lolololol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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