"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Pickups on Vacation

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Ok i'm headed down south (Dominican republic) in a couple of weeks just wanted to get a thread started to discuss different pickup techniques and stuff to do to get laid on vacation..

I've been rocking the gym really hard for the last while and will be finished my cutting phase right before my vacation so i'll have the sick bod down..

i was trying to think of ways to pick up girls on the beach? there's mad topless girls (or at least there was last yr) and i wouldn't mind havin some aight ideas on ways to talk to them.. i was thinkin of mebbe gettin girls to rub my sunscreen on and hopefully they like the bodybuilding look and will enjoy applying it and potentially i could git a conversation/hookup going.. ppl are always lookin for play on vacation.. so carefree..

there's a club there too.. i suck at club pickups.. i've been reading lessons here but am still weak at it..

anyways.. just wanted to get some other minds workin on this.. thanks boys
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJnomore

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Just be honest

Tell them you can't get over all the topless girls and that is kinda turns you on.

You can find a way to make that sound nice. Its direct to the point and no playing around. Most of getting the girl is being confident, attractive and actually saying hi.
 

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yah since this is the only time i'll see these girls.. i wont be too worried about approaching them.. anymore suggestions?

i dunno bout the lost tourist.. i dunno who'd i'd play that part to? the locals? i dunno if i wanna bang any of those broads.. mad std's prolly..
 

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Pretty much the same principles apply on holiday as do at home.

But...women have a thing about 'holiday romances' - it's a standard topic of womens' magazines etc. The idea of a strange man with whom they have a whirlwind romance for two weeks and then is never seen again makes them go weak at the knees, because it gives them an excuse to be unaccountable.

Basically a holiday is the ultimate breaker down of the ASD - nobody knows the woman, nobody will see them again, they are relaxed, happy, drinking a lot, hanging around semi naked people and feeling in the mood for lurve.

Meeting someone from the same resort also gives great opportunities for unpressurised meetings - eg on the beach, in a bar etc. No need for formal 'dates'.

So just up the 'mystery' a bit, and suggest casual meetings with any girls you meet. Beware of girls in packs though. Go for the ones on their own or with one or two friends.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Apprentice DJ

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"Hi, im single, rich and on vacation"
 

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I'm not the best-looking guy, or have much game, but I'm tellin' you, vacations are ideal for this sort of thing - I know firsthand.
Women are more relaxed, and as another poster pointed out, they're in the frame of mind like, "what happens here, stays here."
It's as if their normal rules of what they would or wouldn't do go out the ol' window.
 
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