"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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pickup chick on FB, she gives number but now?

pyros

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I messaged this 23 years old chick on FB cause I saw she was attending the same salsa event I was going.

Asked her a few questions etc, she seemed interested, told her that I was going with a female friend of mine and that she could come with us to grab a a drink before entering the club. She did not.

Anyway, once in the club I saw her, and after a couple of hours I asked her to dance with me. She just went to three salsa lessons, so I had to lead and guide her. She seemed to have a good time with me, and seemed nice. At the end of the dance I told her that it was me the one who messaged her on fb before. She was surprised but happy.
Then another woman asked me to dance.

Today, two days later, I messaged her and she told me that she really liked dancing with me, so after a bit of chitchat, I told her to go to grab a drink.
She said cool, I asked for her number, she gave it to me in a second.

Then, I asked her out via whatsapp, and told her:
me: "good, so we could meet tomorrow at 20:00 in the center and when we're done Ill drive you home"

-- no reply --

I see she's online, and I feel she is waiting for me to say something else, or build more rapport, cause really, I did not build much.


What do I do?
I was thinking about just texting her tomorrow at around 17:00 to tell her something like: "see you in a while"

What do you think? do I build more rapport via text? or do I remain silent?
she seemed pretty interested, replying instantly, giving me her number etc, but now she's silent.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thorninmyside

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Why ask for the number but whatsapp her a date request? Seems like involving another fruitless technology when she wanted you to call. The tone of your voice could have been the wooing your question needed for an instant yes.
 

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pyros said:
I messaged this 23 years old chick on FB cause I saw she was attending the same salsa event I was going.

Asked her a few questions etc, she seemed interested, told her that I was going with a female friend of mine and that she could come with us to grab a a drink before entering the club. She did not.

Anyway, once in the club I saw her, and after a couple of hours I asked her to dance with me. She just went to three salsa lessons, so I had to lead and guide her. She seemed to have a good time with me, and seemed nice. At the end of the dance I told her that it was me the one who messaged her on fb before. She was surprised but happy.
Then another woman asked me to dance.

Today, two days later, I messaged her and she told me that she really liked dancing with me, so after a bit of chitchat, I told her to go to grab a drink.
She said cool, I asked for her number, she gave it to me in a second.

Then, I asked her out via whatsapp, and told her:
me: "good, so we could meet tomorrow at 20:00 in the center and when we're done Ill drive you home"

-- no reply --

I see she's online, and I feel she is waiting for me to say something else, or build more rapport, cause really, I did not build much.


What do I do?
I was thinking about just texting her tomorrow at around 17:00 to tell her something like: "see you in a while"

What do you think? do I build more rapport via text? or do I remain silent?
she seemed pretty interested, replying instantly, giving me her number etc, but now she's silent.
Why do you consistently ask the same questions over and over again? Considering that you only holla at mediocre chicks anyway, why don't you play the numbers until you find one that wants to eff you. You don't need any sort of specialized game to get 5's and 6's. Also what do you have again cold approaching chicks in the street?
 
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