icantgetlaid
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I pretty much word for word said that on a Facebook post I saw populated by feminists and white Knights. Their brains nearly imploded. Then they started raging saying men need to b taught not to rape lol.Is there anyone here who has a daughter who is NOT teaching them that passing out drunk around a bunch of guys will get them fvcked?
Think of the highest crime neighborhood you know. Stuff your pockets with cash, get sh!tfaced drunk, and go pass out on the sidewalk in that bad neighborhood. Then call the police the next morning when you wake up robbed. They're going to laugh at you and tell you that you deserved it for being a dumbass.
True.. None of this garbage works anymore unless the girl is young and or drunk, or you happen to run into a chick that just wants to fvck."Pick Up Artists" are dumb anyway. I mean look at them. Roosh? Matt Forney? This guy? It's not 2005 anymore, the gig is up and girl's were onto it years ago. Using phrases like "Neg the target" while "sarging" and you deserve whatever you get.
That's a horrifying, but very enlightening story. You know it's funny, radical feminists say "all men are potential rapists" or some such trash. The truth is, while not all women are potential rape fakers, every feminist is.True.. None of this garbage works anymore unless the girl is young and or drunk, or you happen to run into a chick that just wants to fvck.
One more thing of the topic. Never fvck a really drunk women, EVER. If she's drunk and she is throwing herself at you, DO NOT go for it. It is not worth the risk of having her come back and say she was raped. When I was in college I was making out with a drunk girl at a party, but it never went past that, later she hooked up with some dude, when she was blind drunk, and since apparently I was the only guy she could remember said I raped her when she woke up naked in the quad, with dried spunk on her face. Lucky for me I had lots of witnesses that said no way it was me. The dude that fvcked her, got hauled in charged and was sent to prison for 12 years.
I know that there are many here that will say, that's all a bunch of BS... and it is... but it is also reality. Men are held to a higher standard of behavior when they are drunk, b!tching about it is pointless, it is what it is so protect yourself.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
http://abcnews.go.com/US/university...fuses-play-teammates-linked/story?id=44236806
University of Minnesota Football Team Refuses to Play Until Teammates Linked to Sexual Assault Allegation Reinstated
At some point, according to what she told police, she went to one player’s apartment that he shared with a roommate who was also there.
Police say she told them that she believed sexual contact with the first two men may have been consensual but sexual contact with others was not. Police noted in their reports that she told them that she didn't "have a recall about how the sex acts started" and that she said there was a "line of people, like they were waiting for their turn." Police say she told them that people had their phones out but she did not know whether videos or photos were taken.