Picking up women on the street

[zennon]

No, not the ones that one would have to pay for...

You know what I'm talking about-girls walking towards me on the street/on campus or wherever, gives me that look, and walks past.

Problem is: I have no idea how to pick up women like this. Do I turn around, walk up to her and strike up a conversation, or leave it because it looks ridiculously desperate? Normally I just carrying on walking because, most of the time, I'm late for something.

The reason I'm asking is because apparently women HATE being hit on in the street, and if they don't, then I've missed out on A LOT of opportunities. And that pisses me off.

Thanks in advance for any advice.

Zennon

 

[Rex Man]

I would talk to them, but not with the intention of 'picking them up'. That said some are more difficult than others....

if I'm walking one way and an HB is walking in the opposite direction and we cross, I don't approach.

If we are both, walking in the same direction and she's not on the phone or something, I may spark up a convo.

If we're both, say, on the bus then you're in prime real estate.

Go in with the idea of getting over your anxiety, as you start talking to her, you can get a general of idea of how far you can get with the convo....Usually the exchange of cell numbers works.

-Rex Man (Defender of All That is Pimp)

 

[j0n024]

Yes I agree with Rex, You should go into the convo with out trying to pick her up. It seems to me your afraid to talk to them so what you should do is just start a convo and see if they are worth talking to in the first place, I know all to well how you think she is super hot but find out she cant hold a convo to save her life. What's good about "Daygame" is that you can take them on insta-dates, meaning if you got the time ask her to walk with you or maybe go to the park or something around that is reachable by walking. Good luck man.

 

[zennon]

Yes I agree with Rex, You should go into the convo with out trying to pick her up. It seems to me your afraid to talk to them so what you should do is just start a convo and see if they are worth talking to in the first place, I know all to well how you think she is super hot but find out she cant hold a convo to save her life. What's good about "Daygame" is that you can take them on insta-dates, meaning if you got the time ask her to walk with you or maybe go to the park or something around that is reachable by walking. Good luck man.

Bloody good idea, thanks mate.

 

[zennon]

I would talk to them, but not with the intention of 'picking them up'. That said some are more difficult than others....

if I'm walking one way and an HB is walking in the opposite direction and we cross, I don't approach.

If we are both, walking in the same direction and she's not on the phone or something, I may spark up a convo.

If we're both, say, on the bus then you're in prime real estate.

Go in with the idea of getting over your anxiety, as you start talking to her, you can get a general of idea of how far you can get with the convo....Usually the exchange of cell numbers works.

-Rex Man (Defender of All That is Pimp)

But surely if she makes it obvious that she is obvious I should spark up a convo regardless of which direction she is walking?

 

[Jukeboxhero]

No, not the ones that one would have to pay for...

You know what I'm talking about-girls walking towards me on the street/on campus or wherever, gives me that look, and walks past.



Zennon

Just curious, could you describe that "look" ? I would like to know what it is so I know if women ever give me that "Look".

 

[Effington]

I don't do day-game, but that's because I have no time to go on "instant-date" during the day. I am always busy during the day with work; the only time I get out of the office is to/from lunch. (If it's a Saturday afternoon in the park, that's a different story, but I digress) You see a girl, say, at the bus stop with you. My play is to smile, if she smiles back, I make a nonchalant line, such as about the weather, then introduce myself. If she seems receptive, go from there. Neg in a playful way. Continue on the bus but I typically keep it to small talk (I live in the city, so the bus is full with 100 eavesdroppers, it sucks), then number close at the end.

One time something that really worked, when I saw a girl at the bus stop and we smiled at each other, I started the chat, all was good. Then the bus didn't come for like 5+ minutes (it was cold so it felt like a long time), I number closed her before the bus got there. Then the bus came, it was super packed (cold + long wait = lots of people already on board) so I didn't even snag a seat by her. She sat down in an open seat and I just smiled and went to the back. I already had her number and didn't have to subject myself to a full bus packed full of observers. Perfect close in tough situations.

 

[zennon]

Just curious, could you describe that "look" ? I would like to know what it is so I know if women ever give me that "Look".

Hard eye contact, smile, blushing slightly. You can often anticipate receiving this look if you see them fixing themselves up in the distance when they see you.

 

[War Against Betaism]

I don't really like day game as much, because you're more exposed and it's harder, at least for me. I remember doing one day game approach, it came out all right. It's basically the same as night game, but if anyone has watched The Pick Up Artist with Mystery, day game just moves at a slower pace because the atmosphere of clubs promotes quicker hook ups.

Though here's a solid line to use if you catch a woman passing by you and she smiles at you. "Nice smile, are you friendly?"